jennifer lost her husband nicholas. according to a friend, the 52-year-old born-again jew had a heated passionate conversation with politics and religion with his co-worker and gunman, syed rizwan farook just days before the shooting. >> i'm sure he would have talked to him and i'm sure they would have had discussions with religion because my husband would discuss religion with anybody that would listen. >> reporter: those close to robert adams tell cnn the 44-year-old always wanted to be a father. he married his high school sweetheart, summer, and finally got his wish last year when she gave birth to savannah. the couple had plans to take their 20-month-old to disneyland next week. benetta bet-badal, a mother of 3, moved to the u.s. from iran when she was 18 to escape religious persecution. her husband says everything she