Take it, stuff into squash. Good things coming out of this book. Omg, guy. Youre looking good. Then dating changed over the years so have the rules. Find out what men really think about that when our guys tell all panel is here. You wont learn a darn thing but will laugh your buns off. And wait until you hear what we have to say when comedian jeff dye stops by. Should you or should the not pay your kids for good grades . Were going to take a look at what experts have to say about that. Yes. What do you think . Well why dont we turn that into a wine bot . I dont see the wine bot over there. Oh. Were doing it. Downstairs, ready to go. Heres our question. Yes. Ready . Uhhuh. No. What we doing the haircut . What are we doing for the wine bot . I thought we changed it back. Changing their childs haircut . Okay . Theres a story of a divorced couple, and the man the husband, the exhusband, took the child, the 4yearold child, and took him for a a haircut right before the school picture. Okay . This was after, just so you know the story. The mom took the son to the dads house and said, honey not honey. Probably not that. Tomorrows school pi make sure you comb it like this. Heres the outfit, all ready for the school picture. So the dad decided the next day to cut the hair before the picture. The question is, should both parents sign off on a haircut . Looking at the guys. Guys, whats wrong with that . All the guys. A big deal. All the women are going, what . Can we cut your hair, guy . Can we cut my hair . Is that going to happen on the thats a whole new cutting my hair. With wont do the cutting. Guy, what do you think . Should both parents sign off mamas not happy, nobodys happy. Divorced or not, didnt get my wife many approval and klg hoda, yes. Because we all think that, yes, both parents should be consulted. Say no if you think that, look, you know what . Ihave right to choosehe did we make that clear . Not really. Okay. Okay. We have a Kim Kardashian west update. You knows know the story about kim robbed in paris. New reports are out that a stolen pendant from her was found by a passerby near the scene of the robbery. So kim identified it as hers. Theyre supposed to do testing. Triple check. For dna. There really was, wasnt a prank, some thought it was a hoax i. Believed it was real. Sometimes people think its a unique piece and wont be able to sell it, maybe just tossed it . Usually people dismantle trying to hide a crime, too. I dont know. We werent there. Anyway, to be continued. Yeah. The forensic investigators are looking into it. A lot of people are watching dancing with the stars. Uhhuh. We all love maureen mccormick, so last night. Mara yeah. The celebrities danced to a song celebrating the most memorable year of your life. What year would you pick . The most memorable . I think my most memorable year is yet to come. I think wont it be . Fun . I think it is yet to come. I likey that, hoda. I believe in that. When was or is your most past . I keep my memorable years, i think theyre winding down. Ah. I think it i had two, obviously. 1990 and 1993 when my children were born. I dont really remember anything or care about much that happened before that. I really didnt, or dont. Anyway, she celebrated, marcia did, 1985, the day she married her husband. Revealed why she wanted to honor him last night and opened up about a lot of troubles we didnt know she had. No idea. After the brady bunch. Take a crowd, music crowd, and it consumed her u. Know, i was going to crazy parties, doing crazy things. Drugs were everywhere. I lost all control. I did things that im not proud of it all. When my husband and i met, i had come out of a fiveyear heavy my husband really, really help ed save me from rock bottom. Wow. We loved her before. He love her all the more now. You dont know what people go through. You really dont. Danced to a dan and shea song and got scored, a beautiful song, by the way. Looks so pretty. Doesnt she . Called f if you want a great song, been on your knees and want to wake up, get up, that song is great. . Just take my hand . Happy for you. We are so quick to judge in this world we live in. Especially social media. I think about the thing, the storms i went through years ago, and how devastating they were, when youre in the eye of the storm. You know . And to have everything compounded by social media that is just so ugly and so cruel. With anonymity. Think before you tweet. Think before you put something on facebook. Think about what it could be like if you were on the other end. On the receiving end. Absolutely. What happened on the voice. Each coach brought a celebrity adviser to help and created crazy unexpected moments. Team blake chose bette midler. Love her hello dolly hello. A s sundance. Love his name. How are you . Meet the great bette mittler. I recognized her and freaked me out. Beaches. You love that movie . I love that movie. Youre the only man that has ever loved that movie. Love it. Who doesnt love her . Love her. Dont you love sundance . By the way, he won his battle round. Good for him. Come on, sundance. Terrific, but sang cry me a river with team adam yeah, but lets see what happened. . So . Winner of this battle riley. Riley moving on representing adam in the knock outround. Its simply disappointed, to win or get incredible experience. Miley is amazing. So glad hes going on. What a sweet girl. Sweet girl. Learned through the years these kinds of competitions what seems like over is not over. Absolutely. You know . Look at all the people that have gone on to do just phenomenal things than win a contest. Absolutely. A question for you. And for us. We dont know who this is. Who is this celebrity . Walking around in amsterdam in justin timberlake. Carrot top. Cant see. Justin bieber . Bieber . Okay. Went out to get coffee. You know he wouldnt be able to if he went out just as the bieber. Speaking of the bieber. Speaking of the bieber, madame tussaud, all dewey, sweaty and u you know when those things are made of you, they made its really you. They take a gazillion pictures of you. You have a madam. No, i dont. Ive been in it. Never had my no, no. They did regis. What . Wait, wait. And that other girl. Wait, wait, wait a second. They didnt do you in madame tussaud . No why would they do you . Im shocked and upset and no. Why would they . Hey, madame tussaud if youre listening no, no, but i know that because. Wow. They take a gazillion pictures of exact measurements, im total lid shocked. If they were doing it, in my 20s. Not interested anymore. Donnas here with her friends. Give a hi to donna yost and her posse. What party are they going to . Thank you for cg function. Free for five lucky viewers when hoda gives it away. Got bless the king of king of california cool taking over new york city. And guy turns dishe . . . . . And off you go, . . . . And off you go, . 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Were going to brine a turk. Wrap it in bacon, roast it off in the oven. Stop it. A brined bird here. How long do you brine it for . If you can brine this a full turkey up to a day. 24 hours. Just the breast and the, with the bonein, if you just do a few hours youre in good shape. What happens to if . Yeah. Brining, what happens . Its hard to overbrine it, but what would happen is it flavor. Notice a texture difference. Okay . Weve taken that. Now we take the bacon and shingle the bacon over the top. Look at you. Leaving fresh herbs, bay leaf, thyme, shingle it over the top. Brush with olive oil, salt and pep thyme. You get the whole gig. Spent more time dancing and singing at the beginning of the saysment so we got to move things along. Roast it off. The brined bird, a little seasoning, what happened it in 350 degrees, cook it off, depending on the size of the bird getting it to 165. Dont cover it . Not covering it. Let that roast. And dont stick it on the pan in the bottom . I like the rack to get the heat all the way around. Say the bird is done. Done move this way were. Youve enjoyed my thing, in my house, im on the road quite a bit and my wife doesnt like to cook a ton. Shes a great cook but likes things done and the kids like what i finished. Look how beautiful. Fantastic. Unless yew a vegan, that looks really good. This dish, i break into right now, if you were a vegan, dont have to use the turkey. Peppers and onions sauteed. Faroe one of my favorite. What is it . One of the greatest grains. Say one of the oldest grains. This really fantastic, awesome texture to it. Nice chewiness. A little bit like brown rice. Brown rice. Yeah. Doing at least kwis a week. These Brussel Sprouts are simple. Everybodys raving about them already. Live, people starting to take them out of the kitchen. Im going to have one. Drop in the Brussel Sprouts, bassamic vinegar, roast in the oven, pepper, onions. Nice and hot. 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First up dr. Larry burchett and author of the gentlemans diet working well ow on you, doctor. Next, chuck nice. We love ya. Love as well as comedian and host of gsns idiot test, glen beeb in new orleans tonight there you go. What a joy. Last, no the least, still engaged so sad but also fun bob guinea. We love him. Kids, are we ready . Yes. Lets go across the street. Hi. Im angie from colorado and wondering what are you really thinking when we say, how do i look . Ooh wow. Take it. Loaded words. Heres what we do. We immediately think how we really think you look, and then for about a quarter second. The rest of that second is, how are we going to adjust this answer . So its appropriate t loud. Never has a mans mind been more engaged than when a woman says, how do i look . Immediately your brain goes, how we going to do this. You can do this, chuck. You can do this you can make this happen. We can avoid global thermal nuclear war. Beautiful. Thats the easy answer. Hopefully you feel the person you are with is beautiful. So you dont lie. If its like ive gotten in trouble, you know what else would be look would be that, and that never works. What i think if youre the woman, read the pause before the speakings thats where you see the truth. They say, how do you look . On a first date the other day. The girl said end of the date. I dressed really casual for this date. Hope thats okay. I went like this of course its okay. That pause waiting. By the way, the answer is, always. You look great. Look beautiful. You know what . To my daddy used to say to her, you look good to me, baby. Thats the best answer. Yeah. The best answer. Take another one . Only ten second. Stick around, though. Much more from the crowd right after this. Hoda and i get to know each hoda and i get to know each other a whole lot better from . Go paperless, dont stress, girl . . I got the discounts that you need . Rless, dont stress, girl . . I got the discounts that you need . . 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Burchett. And ben glee, still engaged bob begin. Not for long. Not long. 30 days. Tick tock. Were happy for you. Cant have you back anymore. Nice knowing you all lets go across the street. Hi. Im megan in rhode island. Better for women to approach men or let them come to us . If we get the choice, come on approach a woman. You think were very confident. Were not. Were very scared and walking by and like, oh, its weird. I can talk to anybody, but a girl you like, all of a sudden, nervous little boy. But not interested . Easy to talk to any girl im not interested in. Chuck what do you think . No. Make it easy. Thats all. If you make yourself available, he will approach you. You know . Because thats all there is to it. How do you make yourself approachable . E you right here. [ laughter ] no. That doesnt work. [ laughter ] come on, ladies get into that. Thats the new universal, i want you. [ laughter ] the new universal, im a perv. Stay away. Doctor, good doctor i agree with everybody. Its nice when a girl approaches us. Still i dont know. Kind of feel like we should be the man. Right. Do the choosing . Like that, but maybe give us subtle hints. The man has a cool backup plan. Were fine with that. Get to this one. Terry from ohio, im 50 years old and just started to date after being divorced 11 years. Good for you. Do guys expect a kiss on the first day if going well . You can tell out of the dating scene a long time. Yes. I sometimes think the mantra to a lot of people is probably, no sugar on the first date, might not be a second date. Notes sugar. A little. Something to show you had a great time, interested, and attracted. Definitely doesnt have to go further. Nothing wrong with a little show of affection. Im old school. Cat and mouse. End of the day, what you want to do is, i had a lovely time. He moves in, you go i just couldnt. And then full of bad advice today. [ laughter ] come on. Youre killing me. A kiss is nice. You cannot expect it after date no more dates after that. Because she didnt like you why did she go out with you the second and third time . Because i was paying for dinner. Im not a free dinner machine. She was hungry now we know. Seriously, let me just button it up. All the expectations are on you. Do not let a man put expectations on you. You set the expectations, because he is taking you out. He wants something from you. I dont think you should kiss on the first date. I think youre ri the first date. Its cool to leave them wondering a little built. What do you think . You have to have a kiss . The womans 50 years old. She can make her decisions. Get that point. And some guys, encouraging her for getting out there. Do whats comfortable. You want to kiss a guy, kiss him. But we want to kind of give her a little push. Show us how oldfashioned. Kiss on the first word on that show. Kissing. One dude, has 25 girls to choose from. Like in life. Right. 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Maybe wednesdays not tomorrow. Its always tomorrow. Showbiz stuff. Check out your tv awkward. And does it ever get hairy . You really are pitting families against each other, in a way . Adult children. Okay. But, yeah. You dont want to know what your parents have been up to sexually, but we find out. Wow. This sounds like a nightmare. I dont want to know what hodas been up to sexually. I do. I want to know immediately. Were going to play a game. Actually, i would like to know a little. Rapid fire questions, 30 give you prizes, like, something cool that you like. Rattle things af about kath, i tell you whether true or false . Were ready. Whos first . All right. Five statements. Im going to ask you about hoda. Okay. All right. 30 seconds true or false. Hoda once stole a cowboy hat by shoving it under her shirt and running out of a are to. True. True or false, as a kid hoda earned a green belt in ka raki and gave it up because it was too much work. Dates with three different guys on the same night. So true. True or false, hoda once flipped off someone driving and turned out to be her boss best friend, probably. And hoda once 3 1 2 hours early for a flight and still managed to miss it. Too ridiculous to be false, im saying true. Good on time. Find out how she did. Okay. Stole a cowboy hat ran out of the store. True i did. A dare. Shoplifting is okay. Its a dare. Im sorry. As a kid hoda earned a green belt in karate, gave it up, too much work. False. It was false. In college hoda scheduled three dates on the same night. I said true. False. I couldnt get a date in college. I had a bad overall look. Lets move on. Its not all about looks. Id have taken you out for your personality. Oh oh driving that turned out to be her boss best friend. You said true . Sounds like her. True. On the way to a graduation speech. Late. Someone cut me off. Didnt know it was him. I felt bad. Cut off, you get flipped. Hoda 3 1 2 hours early for a flight and still managed to miss it. I said yes. It is true. Going to acapulco and missed the flight. Talking. Go to kath. Three out of five is good. You just won 3,000. Given you 3,000 american dollars from spike tv. Go. Next 30 seconds on the clock. Go. Kathy secretly loves listening to snoop dogg. Totally false. Kathy goes nuts for a man with an attractive foot. I say false. Okay. Three, kathy got locked out of her house naked while letting the dogs out. True. One morning. True okay. Kathy will do almost anything in a fan asks h accent. So true, yes. Five, kathy once got such a bad bout of food poisons resorted to throwing up in her purse and asked for the driver to pull over so she could dump the purse puke on the ground. Id say true. All right. Times up. Okay. You know the answers. We said secretly loves snoop dogg. False. False. Shoutout to our boy snoop. Kathy goes nuts for a guy with good feet. Know you were okay with not great feet. 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Many parents incentivize their kids pie baying them for good grades. What are you teaching them by doing that . And positive Parenting Solutions author of a really, really terrific book called the me, me, me epidemic. And with us, psychologist and ours dr. Dale atkins. Hi, guys. So glad the two of you are here. You are really wise women and we need a lot of wisdom right now in this world. Dont we . Amy, you have take an stand. Wrote something for today parenting and say, no, do not pay for grades. On the surface it may seem to make sense. Really, 40 yearses of Research Proves that using external rewards to motivate a behavior, in this case paying for grades, actually motivation. We dangle the carrot, the kid performs for the payout rather than for the love of learning and interest in a subject. Thor issue, its not sustainable. What happens when 5 for an a is no longer motivating . Up the ante to 10 ors 15ds . The kid doesnt like math. Cost 20 keep to keep them motivated . Are kids motivated by money . Youll get 5 for an a . For some, yes. The motivation has to be appropriate for the child. I agree totally will with amy. What we really want to do, help kids feel good about themselves and learners and if we teach them how to learn and focus on the process rather than the grade, and really give them encouragement for paying attention, for doing things on their own, and teaching them how to do that, they will get this feeling of joy and love of learning, and accomplishment, and that is what feeling good about themselves. Selfesteem. Feeling positive about that interesting, because our today producers talked about this. This actually blew up in a meeting because a lot of the producers got paid for grades and wound up working here at 30 rock and said, look. It worked for us. Thats terrible. Youre right. The first three hours, they got us. What does that mean . It does work for some. See . They all know its true. So to your point, these were motivated to begin with. Right . Definitely. Getting paid for grades is like a bonus. Sure, liked it, but did it really change their behavior . Think of the less man motivated kid. If cash is your primary vehicle, its never sustainable. Like putting bad dates on symptoms. Dont get to the real issue, discouraged . Have a learning difference . A power struggle . Unless we dig into that, no amount of payment will ever keep that kid motivated learn te willing to look any closer and say, what really might be going on . Maybe a kids embarrassed in school or bullying . To the point amy made if a child does have a learning difference, you can dangle as much money as you want. Theyre still not able to do it unless they learn the way theyre supposed to learn, and then they are motivated, because theyve had success. There are many ways to incite kids and give wonderful incentives meaningful for them. Time with my kid. Make that part of the incentive. 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