A snowy Sunday morning proved to be no deterrent as congregants and elected officials packed into Ohr HaTorah also known as Rabbi Sobolofsky’s shul to join in the eagerly anticipated groundbreaking ceremony that was years in the making.
A snowy Sunday morning proved to be no deterrent as congregants and elected officials packed into Ohr HaTorah also known as Rabbi Sobolofsky’s shul to join in the eagerly anticipated groundbreaking ceremony that was years in the making.
Advice for the Out-of-Town Dater By Rebbetzin Efrat Sobolofsky, LMSW, Ph.D. | December 17, 2020
Q: As an out-of-town girl, I often face difficulty dating due to my location on the map. Aside from the long-distance travel, many times families are hesitant to involve themselves with out-of-town families. Yet, we all know that Hashem is the true Shadchan, and if it is His desire, the shidduch will happen regardless of the long-distance travel.
A few months ago, a shadchan contacted me. She heard that I was in the New York area and just spoke to a boy who was suggested to me several times. Upon hearing that I was in town, the boy agreed to give me a yes. The shadchan was inquiring if I would be available to meet the boy for coffee. Although it was last minute, and after checking out a few points, I told the shadchan that I was available for a coffee date early the next morning. I explained to the shadchan that I had a late-afternoon flight, but had time