the scandals. raising good, kind kids is what it is about. not all of these fake achievements and over parenting that in the end ends up hurting them. martha: according to the latest scandal, living a good life is free. and getting your job into harvard could cost half a million dollars and some of these cases. i just want to circle back on one thing. the issue of the depression and anxiety, because we are joking about some of these things, but that is a very serious issue. and there is a lot of factors that are going into that for the young people, what are what is n that issue? i think that helping kids manage problems when it is small, not always doing everything for them but reminding them of everything, even when they are little or in elementary school. if they are related to the game and the coach does not let them play, don t defend the kid, he was late to the game. also little experiences build