One of the lingering misconceptions around suicide is that if you mention the word ‘suicide’ to someone you think may be having suicidal thoughts, it will prompt them to do it. That the very mention of it will tip them over the edge and it will be your fault. This is not the case.
Using the word suicide does not induce suicide. It’s a myth an understandable one, born of fear and concern and not knowing what to do around someone you think may be in that despairing headspace, but it’s a myth nevertheless.
Instead, bringing the word into the open may provide a space for the person experiencing suicidal thoughts to talk about how they are feeling, which may in turn help dissipate their sense of despair and isolation.
Some people are feeling isolated or alone, so this is more important than ever
Su Carty, who works with the IRFU and World Rugby, is part of Ohana ZERO Suicide. By Murray Kinsella Sunday 17 Jan 2021, 8:00 AM Jan 17th 2021, 8:00 AM 29,312 Views 4 Comments
Su Carty has major experience in rugby as a player, referee, and administrator.
Image: Isaac Peral Photography
Image: Isaac Peral Photography
IT WAS DURING the first lockdown last year that Su Carty had a moment of epiphany.
Working one of her 12-hour shifts as a psychiatric nurse at St Vincent’s Hospital in Dublin, covered head to toe in PPE gear but enjoying being back in her old job – “it wasn’t all halo stuff, to be honest” – she was struck by the words of one of her patients.