A step ahead with d. W. Business beyond sex is a pretty complicated business in mexico. The country is all about passion in temptation, yet there are many taboos after a party, its rarely a case of your place or mine. Many couples prefer to use a love hotel. As i am, i know they even have menus for sex toys. Right next to the corner of the, of the ones for a bigger macho man has come under attack, will in today want more than just a traditional role. They are fighting for change. Thats my sincere wish is the day to will conquer the world. And they train spots, mexicans love sex, but they like to keep it hidden, going back and forth between the traditional and the modern. Ah, mexico city, the angel of independence towers auspiciously above the capital. The megacity represents everything which is mexican, a blend of folklore and progress. Lovebirds, kaboodle on every corner. Public displays of affection, raise no eyebrows here. But there is a reason these intimate moments did not take place in private. Ha danielle aconia in uniform. Wouldnt they have been together for a year now . Both of them make a living from singing, like here in this restaurant. This is how they met and fell in love. A few such strong passion went on together with him. Not just sexually. It is real love. I love everything about him, the way he does things, his voice, the way he looks his eyes. I think he is wonderful. He is 30 years old. She is 20 and they both still live at home with her parents. This is usual in mexico often until a couple marys partly out of tradition and also because money is often tight, many incomes are low, and during the pandemic, it was hard for them both to earn money. When work is over they cant say, lets go back to my place or yours. Staying overnight at the partners, families taboo and sex is completely out of the question. How mrs. Kim strickland. Of course we want to be together. But her home isnt very nice for us, and neither is mine. My mother can be a bit difficult. We cant do much alone. We cant even watch a film together. Get up in the number in the columbus. Dont meet again to morrow. Weekend nights in the city for wild, fun, loving and colorful lobbys love. And its lavishly celebrated in mexicos capital. There seems to be no sign of any taboos unable. Oh, a good. Its mexicos colorful, modern side, celebrating sexuality. Ah, genuine and uniform like a bit quieter though. One of their Favorite Places is a park they can be alone here, far from the eyes and ears of their parents. But in that most in the asylum, in an up eliquis lay, we were sitting together in the living room watching a film. And suddenly i heard no sound from my mothers room, just got another quote that she turned down her television, so she could hear what were up to nonsense is this he is a part of phillip. So we dont really have any privacy cancer lather, tandoori, or possibly that even if we had a big house with the room where we would not disturbed. Its still a question of respect him. A unit from one, its a cultural issue to look is come up with my family is there was this cuz my mother is there. I wouldnt feel comfortable. St. Thomas in tacoma, you need to work out to wipe in this thing with it. Done. Years feels as long as you live with your parents, you should respect that they are rules, their sensibilities and their taboos. Love that a me is there more of the idea of them catching me, having sex fills me with dread puzzles. Oh, you get a lot of scorn it or comments like yeah, stuck on there are other places for that out there that he said get a room if you want to do that, but i so i tell them what they list, what are your own parents or even friends say it was me is most bothered is, must balance disease in amigos. Meta so young people are supposed to have sex in hotels. This couple goes to one regularly when theyre feeling amorous. But theyre a bit too embarrassed to show us their favorite hotels. As i use my nose, no, there are many is full sex toys. I put them right next to the condo. Like i said, i never get it towed wiggly, as i am very curious, is i the one which is in missouri. I was really excited. The 1st time. Welcome all. Wow. I thought wow, i love chamber, fabulous. Hey, how fun good deal were not one of them at least i know he can swim now. Oh, the capital is teeming with love hotels. No one can say exactly how many there are. But there are lots with a price range to suit. Anyone love hotels are in such high demand that they provide a Good Business for some people out. A leo best case is a designer for a special kind of love hotel minute. But like if im appears the entrance, its very discreet, rather, very private in here directly, you can see the prices of space you didnt see last night costs between 30 and a 100 euros. That payment is made directly at the entrance and if it didnt work, no one can see from outside who is entering the hotel. They must been, everything is discrete in but almost cant. We enter and park here and the doors close automatically. What youve been, youre basically already in the hotel, some of been try, look, good. Audio has already designed over 50 hotels from duncan, when it, by the you with ru service, you can order food or drinks or even sucks. Toys, condoms lube a little bit of everything country from political if. If then when the waiter comes g plus the order in here tells you it closes it and the customer on the other side takes the order out if it didnt like what it go. Second, i called the whole process is completely discrete. You dont see each other husband not having a little audio is convinced a happy sex life makes for a happy society to this end, he is created very esteemed areas, all created to stimulate desire eat la la. Like i said, i have yet that i feel i eat the fuel. The shower is open. So you can explore voyeurism in exhibitionism a and dont if you ask her partner the shower while you watch a few or you spine on them. But and they put on a show those piano eat luck, photo reflexion. The idea obviously works. It looks like a wet and satisfying pool party took place here they got big. Oh, not big one, only one of my regular customer says she want an uprising in mexico. If to close the love hotels for 3 days, then youll have a revolution or said luis boscus and his girlfriend cut and bina are regular customers in love hotels. Theyre not short of money and have their own apartment, but they find the change of scenery stimulating gigantic as you come here with the feeling of wanting to really enjoy it. Its no ordinary night at home. We also enjoy each others bodies. But he, you have a certain extra i say its something i love coming. When im in a love hotel, it brings out my in a corner, start a few more relaxed and more in the mood for something special. Not the same old retain, did not, it will say was him bring all they are very impressed with a room. It creates a few options for an interesting afternoon. If that or leave open didnt love this couch is deeper than usual below me, nothing but it changes the angle full picked up yet in certain positions the angle of your patterns, pelvis is really important. It feels different. And this thing makes it easier. If you dont need extra pillows or anything, just one of our while the mood is just right. Theres only one factor getting in the way. Its time for us to go. But it was nice meeting you take care, were going to have fun now by a few kilometers away from the capital. An exciting day is beginning. Frankie hurry up, its getting late. Ill have you packed your baggage. I havent been for yet. Thats good. Its the daily morning rush for nancy ortiz her. Shes preparing a quick breakfast and helping her daughter they sheena with her braids. Nancy is a strong woman, a law graduate, a single parent, independent. This makes her different from many other women. In often, traditional Mexico School has just started after the cove it pandemic into that he know is happy. She has big plans for her future. Did. Oh yes. I see. I went to be a surgeon many of you. Okay. Yes, i dont. I, he never, you know, to he now you can do anything you want in life with you on this, where you have to work really hard to achieve your trains. But you can do anything and showed the world that we women can do any thing. So most got buses it. Uh huh. Nancy would make any sacrifice to let her daughter grow up in a fair society. Mexico is still far behind. Men have special rights. As it is, sheena has noticed of it isnt. Ive got some parents say you dont have to clear the table. Youre a boy. You have to wash the dishes because youre a girl. Thats not ok. Isnt that should teach children that everyone is the cause. But again, one to day at school, theres a festival for theodore marcos, the day of the dead. But joyful celebration and mexico, nancy and most other parents preferred to accompany their children to school. Here in the elk alpine, there has been a lot of violence lately, especially against women or game. Would you give me very unsafe on the street . Sometimes as i said, many women have disappeared. We went brussels. When this, when you go out, you see photos unused about women who havent come home in some parts of our neighbourhood. You even hear about murders school and then also does we be must boise . Yes. Absolutely. Yes. As you know, were murdered in the 1st half of 2021. Over 500 cases were officially famous sides murders of women, motivated by jealousy, possessiveness, or massage. Any nancys freedom as a woman has not been easy to achieve. Her family is deeply conservative. She has paid a high price for not marrying and enjoying sexual freedom. Her father is disgusted and relatives avoid her. Now was that he knew what people say. Its the 1st thing you hear about our reputation. Its a heavy burden for us women today. The more partners you have, the more you are condemned. Not yet its different for men. Theyre allowed to talk about it openly. They brag and celebration with their friends imperialistic. A woman cant do that. They dont um, head no. This high school was the turning point for nancy. She was the 1st in her family who fought for the right to study. Here she was inspired with new ideas, feminism and equal rights. A womans destiny, children, church, and kitchen was not for her. She took part in student protests and became a rebel with me. But my father was ashamed when people asked him about it and that was worth that he thought of his daughters reputation. Guessed that she was here with all these young people that im and then his biggest worry was that i had surely lost my virginity with 200 men. He said awful things about me that i was worthless with good. Your general been. Yeah. But the new school year is just beginning off for these young women. High school already seems like normality, but in mexico, womens education is still often deemed a waste of time. Nancy spontaneously. Cheers on the class with the schools battle cry. Moody. I am very moved to see them here with old a drain way in your hagi when they had to know that their age and i was so nervous. Its a crucial moment in their lives when it would be those impulses. My sentilia wish. What is that they to will conquer the world and fight for their drains . Things get even more emotional for nancy later when she meets her family at home. I knew saids is a construction manager in mexico city. His work is in a classic mans world. With him, i me sums up the dominant idea of what makes a good real man in this environment. His daughter, we have a very traditional image of the man here as the breadwinner. The protector of the family who watches over his own, told me in the dark side of the strong protective man, is much small and often used word in mexico. Each colleague here knows one and can tell their stories, but none of them believe that they themselves are muchos. I pay my brother almost killed his wife out of jealousy. He hurt her and went to jail for it. I told him you are crazy. This is evil. So hopefully your jealousy is not acceptable. And so thats how it happened. Jaime would admit today that he was a macho to what he had cheated on his wife. Countless times had a major affair on the side for years and got into fights with men. Laura, and like went romulus to day at the age of 64, when i am in therapy. See, do you want me small this . He said you. I had to recognise, but i had chosen to follow the traditions to and i am a toxic rules of my parents, this toxic us him. He spotted jaime is undergoing macho therapy with therapist ricardo. I Young Ricardo works with men convicted of violence against women and men who recognized that they have a macho problem. Ricardo is doing all he can to bring about change in mexico. I own come from me, so youre not gonna be here. I am convinced that change is possible and that we have a chance to banish machismo in our country. I end up with that and for us men to banish it from within the for by if it has a negative impact on our lives to move forward with some info on the sorry, the in a group meeting, the therapist analyzed the different aspects of machismo. What is defined as violence, all who encourages it . How should it be stopped with the goal of the organization . Hen. This is to prevent violence and achieve gender equality. Theres still a long way to go. In the syndicate case. So no a, we are told that sex is only penetration, and that we need to have a huge erection and be ready to conquer her. Any time will shambrika statical, i suppose shell bottles of it is full of this pressure means you can no longer perform was as if it were you climax too soon . Oh no. And then you blame you pod nomic luncheon pretty close by him. Good boy. But ahead, they say my chief moore has something to do with believing that youre better than everyone else, of believing that you have to be better. This comes from ones upbringing, religion, and the media. This feeling of superiority can lead to violence against women, even during sex. Yes, they will then of my patient says, i come home and i want to have sex, that i dont care whether youre asleep or tired and your body belongs to me. A story that thats how it is in pornography too, though it was and we pass on this behavior generation after generation salad. Ah no guideline. Nancy is doing the final shopping for a special family reunion. The single mother has to work. Do the shopping and take care of her daughter. But his father, like so many men in mexico, took on 0 responsibility. Men have always been told that they are better than women in the family. That if i said they have the freedom to choose whether they want to take care of their child or not, they can simply shift their responsibility. But i havent hardly any men in mexico were willing to, hes a random did he say find it repulsive . Is that about people . Normally the mentality is changing a bit. I even mozambie unbelievable. But usually its the womans responsibility not moment to set a phone call. Mm. Hm, her today for generations are meeting for lunch. I, nancys daughter with grandma rosalia and i delilah youve up in nazis, mother esperanza, weve had enough water for once. The men arent present. If so, the women can talk freely about sex a taboo for grandma rosalia. Navina, when i was young, nobody talked about it and we did not much. We were told to keep quiet. I am the subject was off limits is a hurried enough, a plan is that not that become another . Will she never talk to me about it . And i never asked her message, i went to neighbor for advice and both the yes she already had children, so i could ask her where you are. But my mother, no, i never asked her for the sheena, it sounds like something from another world where. 2 the umbrella to get my mother told me the facts of life as a child. It was a totally normal topic. I mean, well, it was normal for me, but, but for many others its not only because theyre brought up differently because many families arent the same. Oh, issues that were never broached before are now coming to the table, bundle, yeomans tray you, when i started menstruating and i told my mother, she got very angry, tall. No 2nd one look at, but i dont know what was wrong with her, but she was very angry with me. Yes, i remember that any of you. I dont know why i was like that may be because no one had told me and i had to go through it alone. I explained it to my son some time later. He is 3 years young with nancy love. I dont know. I explained it to him, but i should have explained it to her. I said lewis, case delicate boy, it was electrical that idea for grandma was that either a womans place is in the home and taking care of her husband and children as her daughter are delighted. But still, i delight us. Husband started a 2nd family on the side in mexico. They call it the big house and the little house. Yeah, i got that and then i am the big house here. We also call the wife the cathedral and the women they have on the side all the chapel, alaska for you does so life. Okay, to get the in enough a lie, give boy let go. He brought a home with him a little, i guess he wanted me to meet her and my mother in law too late and he told me im together with this woman. And the baby is my daughter. I love it. I could have killed him when that movie hope was being made. Okay. That got mad and feel that the 5th not a bit. I never expected it from him, but his brothers did the same with that amount of the 0 me the with is certainly gone. Its pretty common here in mexico. There was some out, it didnt happen to me, not because, or maybe i just dont know about it. And we got america, them or law say to this day, men still have different rights than women. The sons and her at the house and farm and are supported by their father. While the daughters are dependent on their husbands, i sped on, soc and other lied. I had to ask for permission to go to work. He. Oh, but i think a lot of warriors, when his son comes into the world, hes the pride and joy. But if its a girl its typical in mexico. He, when a girl is born its oh, its a girl. Oh, good with a boy. Its wow. Why celebration had reminiscing is often bitter. Sweet, sometimes painful, but i never received love unless we are a more good grandma give her blessing to either later today if she left her unfaithful husband if a man of his yeah. Jam williams, my father said its very bad and a sin to leave your husband was 150. If a daughter quarrelled with her husband and he threw her out of here, my father said he was sorry, but he would not take her back in it. I went on, i find that tough, she laid, its something bad happened to my daughter and she ran away and came home with eleanor. It would not be right to turn her away as a body, but women take time to feel their pain. But none of them think things can or will go on like this in mexico. I may as a one to one session with his therapist can be kind of due today to banish the inner macho that almost ruined his marriage. But middle, gotta jo, them on that. Im just, i demanded a lot of sexual things and if i didnt get what i wanted and i took it as a good reason to get it somewhere else a little better was carlos hamilton. But out on that to cover it up hill, i told my wife she was crazy mitzy this. Youre crazy. Youre dreaming. Its your imagination. Oil looks but no less. He added those 2 front that he can all go. Oh well i me couldnt handle the guilt anymore. And with his therapist has learned to take responsibility like what, okay, for those hope that his him as you know, i was deeply sad for 2 or 3 weeks when i realized what a violent person i am. Go mol napa. So let the belinda yes boy, your name on that but sola all th