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Abcs matt gutman is in south africa with this report from inside the courtroom. Reporter it was a moment anticipated for 14 months. Oscar pistorius solemnly making his way to the witness stand, breaking his silence with a sobfilled apology to the woman he loved. The woman hes charged with murdering. There hasnt been a moment since this tragedy happened that i havent thought about your family. I was simply trying to protect reeva. Reporter the blade runner once indomitable on the track. Now his voice quivering, barely audible. I can promise you that when she went to bed that night she felt loved. Reporter after pistorius made his way to the witness stand he walked right here and addressed reeva steenkamps family. The defense would not allow him to be videotaped so it was audio only. But here in court we could see his lip quivering as he tried to talk to them. We could tell he hadnt slept in days, his eyes sunken and dark. And for the rest of his nearly threehour testimony he sat here like this, hunched over. Steenkamps mother sat stonefaced, seemingly unmoved. Unlike others in the courtroom, who swept. Legal analysts say his testimony is the hinge on which this trial to could turn. Pistorius admitted to shooting reeva through the closed door of his bathroom at home on valentines day last year. Pleading not guilty, he claimed he mistook the model and reality star for an intruder. Were only interested in weth in h whether in his own mind he thought he was acting unlaflly in that moment. Reporter and what would unfold for the next three hours in a stuffy pretoria courtroom would essentially be the blade runners autobiography, perhaps an attempt to humanize him in the eyes of the world. And the judge who will decide his fate. Starting with his traumatic last year. Do you have difficulty in sleeping . Im scared to sleep. I have terrible nightmares. About things that happened that night. I wake up and i can smell the blood. And i wake up to being terrified. His defense attorney asking him to describe his descent into paranoia. Ive got a Security Guard that stands outside of my front door at night. Reporter it is a trauma so thorough, said the broken man testifying, that after living through the ghastly tableau shown in crime scene photos in court, hes on medication for depression and throughout still professing his love for reeva. I was kind of taken aback by her and just bowled over by how much i fell for her. Reporter he says he always kept his gun close, under his bed, he says to protect his beloved girlfriend and himself. Pistorius grew one a healthy fear of the outside world. His mother divorced from his father when he was just 6 years old, kept a pistol beneath her pillow. Her fear of south africas rampant crime would become his. Living with my mother we were broken into on several occasions. My father has been hijacked twice. My brother was in an intense hijacking. Have you ever been a victim to crime . Yes, i have. Reporter and that sense of insecurity, that fear of crime is shared by nearly all south africans. After all, the incidence of burglary, home invasion, rape, murder, so much higher here than in the u. S. And the paralympic champ said he felt it more keenly than others, especially when he wasnt wearing his prosthetic legs. It just throws my weight off completely. My dog could knock me over without my process tet uk legs on. Reporter pistorius appears to be a shell of the fearless olympian he was a year ago. His former agent was there for the good times. How high was he flying before the shooting . He was an icon. The world loved him. He was unbelievable. Reporter he couldnt believe the transformation when he saw pistorius in the weeks before the trial. I didnt recognize him. And he came, he said can i have a hug. And he gave me a hug. He was shaking. And he said, not too many people love me anymore. Reporter it is this portrait of a man crippled by guilt and depression whod always felt vulnerable, who felt the need to arm himself against the outside world, which could actually be the key to his defense. Hell of course raise the fact that he is disabled, that he has a heightened sense of vulnerability compared to other people in the same position. Reporter his story winding down, pistorius seemed to sink in his chair. Did you sleep last night . No, sir. Reporter his attorney called for an adjournment for the day, and the judge assented. Well, he does look exhausted. He does sound exhausted. Reporter walking out of court, the once invincible olympian looked shattered. But he returns to this courtroom tomorrow with the final chapter of his tale left to tell, a valentines day tragedy that ends with his love dead in his arms, a murder charge against him, and a single question. Why did he pull that trigger . Im matt gutman for nightline in pretoria, south africa. Of course the key will be how does he hold up on crossexamination . Thanks, matt. Next, from kesha to mindy kaling, body acceptance is having a hollywood moment. But not everybody thinks thats a good thing. Why moms are taking sides in the body wars. Coming up next. This is jim. A man who doesnt stand still. But jim has afib, atrial fibrillation, an irregular heartbeat not caused by a heart valve problem. That puts jim at a greater risk of stroke. For years, jims medicine tied him to a monthly trip to the clinic to get his blood tested. But now, with onceaday xarelto jims on the move. Jims doctor recommended xarelto. Like warfarin, xarelto is proven effective to reduce afibrelated stroke risk. But xarelto is the first and only onceaday prescription blood thinner for patients with afib not caused by a heart valve problem that doesnt require routine blood monitoring. So jims not tied to that monitoring routine. 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Whoa you caught that all by yourself . [boy] yeah [father]how old are you to catch that . [boy]three [father]youre three years old . Show me how many fingers that is. At Kaiser Permanente weve reduced serious heart attacks by 62 , which makes days with grandpa jack 100 more possible. Join us at kp. Org and thrive. Youre about to meet the fit mom. Some see her toned body and everything it stands for as an inspiration to shape up. But critics believe shes condescending and out of touch. And when she asked whats your excuse, thousands of women fired back with very real answers. So we thought wed bring them together to square off in person. Heres abcs paula farris. Reporter from the runway to the red carpet, body fat is so in vogue. Girls willing to bear bare it all like lena dunham. We were saying how much we loved your bikini. I heard you laughing about it. Joan rivers. Youre sending the message its okay, stay fat, gets diabetes. Reporter and Mindy Kalings laughing it all off. Mindy let herself go and let herself be a fat sea monster. Reporter but fat shaming can also be serious. Die quuyoung singer kesha say its what led her to rehab for an eating disorder. Tonight were going to die young and now the fight has spilled from the front pages to our home pages. When this mom posted whats your excuse, it sparked reactions from tens of thousands of women. Wow, this woman is so inspiring. She should be ashamed for fatshaming other mothers. If this is fat shaming shame away, my baby weight is coming off. Reporter and that was excuse enough for us to meet the fit mom. Maria kang, mother of three, fitness fanatic, and accidental instigator of the latest battle of the body wars. So were going to do a little bit of legs. Ive heard that im a bad mom. Ive heard that im a fat shamer and a bully already. Im just saying whats your excuse for not making health a priority . Show america how tough moms are. Go. Reporter maria has turned her controversial tag line into a movement. I dont think asking moms to work out is judgmental because everyone should find time in their day at least 20 minutes. Reporter in just six months no excuse moxb]lubs popped up but her unrelenting no excuse refrain is what drove a softspoken kansas city mom to post this. You dont know till youve worked a schedule like this. Reporter sarah mabin juggles a job as an overnight Security Guard and her day job caring for her two kids. So she routinely does 36hour stretches with no sleep. Outraged by fit moms post, it was sarah and some friends who launched a we dont need an excuse counteroffensive. This makes me feel shamed. This makes me feel like im supposed to live up to a standard. Reporter and now, after months of battling it out, theyve asked fit mom to come to kansas city and challenge her to walk in their shoes for one day. You know what . This is a tough life. Reporter i wonder why they chose me for this assignment. Ive been on Maternity Leave for about 2 1 2 months. I feel the pressure to get back in shape. In fact, im wearing a compression tank to suck it all in. First we meet up with maria in california who assures us she doesnt work out all day. She runs a chain of homes for the elderly, chases her three boys around, and even does a regular local news segment. You know, sleep is so important. Reporter next up, sarahs home turf, where the moms will take it off the blog and to the kitchen table. Shes pretty unapologetic. So i feel like its going to go in one ear and out the other. Hello. Reporter so shes not outgunned, maria and christie, the leader of cancel citys no excuse moms club as a backup. I didnt want to come into this situation and be by myself and feel like im being ambushed by these moms. Can we hold hands . Reporter with so much pent up, i dont need to do much. You dont think that in any sense marias fatshaming . I dont. At all. Do you . Yes. Part of the reason i think that we have so many body issues, particularly in this country, is because were no. Regardless of whether youre intending shame, when people feel shamed they feel powerless. Saying that somebody needs an excuse is implying they are at fault for someone. I dont think anyone should look like me. You dont have those disclaimers on that photo. And you say youre not responsible for the thoughts that are in other peoples minds. But thats very similar to a celebrity saying im not a role model for children. But you are. You plummeted yourself into this oh, dont worry, im i always tell people that any moms photo could have been viral but mine did and they messed with the wrong mom because i have something to say. Sure, i attracted you with my face, with my abs, with that caption. But when it comes out of my mouth about i love you but youre on the wrong track. Thats fine. But im attracting other people. The difference between our two moms seems even greater. Good morning, kansas city. Its kind of early. 20 minutes before a very long day. I didnt get the impression that she is willing to see any other side but hers. Sometimes people vilify me to the point where they think i dont know what it means to be busy. And i actually do know a lot about that. Reporter three adults, one child, two car seats to install. Go. Lets see how fast you can get in the car. Reporter what better way to bring people together than a day in the family mini van . And were off to experience a day in the life of sarah. Which means a lot of time in here. And i just feel like oh, come on, im a mom. And i feel like you took my mom badge away from me. I am so sorry that i made you feel that way. Reporter our first stop, dianes home schooling group. Where does the rain come from . The sky. The sky . The clouds. Reporter sarah contributes her time here a few times a week. I would never, ever say fitness is a bad thing or obesity is a good thing. You have to determine what works for each person. I have a 36hour day every week. Reporter because of his special needs, zaya is enrolled in activities all over town, and its here maria thinks she sees a clear window of opportunity. Run around the block for a good half hour. Its an hour class. You can always incorporate fitness. I do not have any kind of set exercise routine. Ill walk around the field. Thats awesome, actually. Reporter for maria being a good mom means taking care of yourself. Which is why she started the no excuse mom club. Lets do this, baby. Reporter she invited me, sarah, and diana to the kansas city chapter so we could see what the movement is really all about. With the baby . Reporter but sarahs soon on the sidelines, unable to join in. We spent a lot of time in the car today. Do you think that maybe you could carve some time out for yourself . Well, it depends on what youre going to define as time for myself. If i took actual time to sit down and exercise, that would seem like work to me. Reporter diana and sarah will say she just didnt get our point. But so many people are misinterpreting the message. Is it worth it . I think that the majority of people get the message and the small percentage that dont, i dont focus on that. You spent the last 24 hours with diana and sarah. Mmhmm. What did you learn . Im absolutely involved with sarah and her life and especially her kids. I think were on very different paths in our lives, and i dont see them intersecting anytime in the near future. But i have a very deep respect for what shes done. Reporter for nightline im paula faris in cancel city. Next, its hard to steal the spotlight from flawless kate middleton. But boy george, the royal baby, not the 80s icon, comes close. The royal familys new zealand adventure, coming up. Youve reached the age where you know how things work. 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Avo during the first ever volkswagen tdi clean diesel event, get a great deal on a jetta tdi. It gets 42 highway miles per gallon. And get a 1,000 fuel reward card. Its like two deals in one. Volkswagen has the most tdi clean diesel models of any brand. Hurry in and get a 1,000 fuel reward card and 0. 9 apr for 60 months on tdi models. Prince george is only eight months old, but hes already crossing enviable items off his bucket list. Traveling to another continent on a private plane, check. Bringing a staff of nearly a dozen personal assistants and nannies, check. Stealing the spotlight from an international icon, check. Abcs Cecilia Vegas in new zealand with the boy who will be king. Reporter the pomp and circumstance fit for a king. The duke and duchess receiving a ceremonial greeting from new zealands indigenous people. Traditional nose kisses known here as hongi. And for the worlds most buttonedup xushlgs a cheeky welcome from maori warriors wearing, well, not very much at all. On the first day of this royal tour down under style it is kates style taking center stage. Decked out in a diamond broach on loan from the queen and looking regal in red, for royal watchers the comparisons to a certain princesss 1984 trip down under were immediate. One of the things that kate always has to face is shes going to be compared to diana even though she is a different person altogether. Its an inevitable comparison. Reporter but only one person could manage to steal the royal thunder from this power couple. Prince george in all his royal cuteness on his First Official tour of duty. We rarely see him until now. There was that brief appearance after his birth, a photo here and there, but with all this royal chubbiness now on full display the world swooned. So there they are. Theyve just touched down. You see prince george, will, kate, the baby looking adorable. This is the closest ive ever been to a member of the royal family. This is really exciting. The royal visit begins. Reporter and the man who will one day be king resigned to carrying his sons royal kangaroo backpack. But william doesnt have to do all the heavy lifting. Part of the entourage, a royal nanny. It happened to the queen with charles and diana and now its happening a little bit with Prince William because in a way hes been outshone not only by his wife but his baby son. Reporter during their three weeks in new zealand and australia the duke and duchess will compete in their own americas cup races and visit christchurch, devastated by an earthquake three years ago. It is a tour designed to replicate williams very first trip to new zealand. But by george, this time theres a new baby in town. For nightline im cecilia vega in wellington, new zealand. If youre going to be a baby, thats the life to have. Thanks for watching abc news. Ill see you on Good Morning America tomorrow and as always, were online at abcnews. Com. Good night. Every day more americans