Im glad youre back with us. We had a lot of fun yesterday. Its always fun being here. The show is barely produced, but its in all the right ways. They just cut all the tethers and cords and let you go out, and they hand you cards. I dont even know what these are, but it works. You guys do such a great job. We have an ace producing department. Its organized chaos. Youre not invited back, from the sidelines. Dean cain, its carson daly. Theyre going to need you soon. All right, so weve got a couple questions were going to answer in the show today. Do men and women speak a different language. The answer is yes. Definitely. Were going to talk about that, about how you can dress down the pounds, but did you know this the busiest weekend of all for Online Dating. Really . Yes, this is when people do their online. You would think earlier, thanksgiving. Why now . Everyone breaks up over the holidays. People get in fights. Its over. People are available now. In the old days, that was before computer dating and all that stuff, people met a complete stranger, they went up to them, spoke to them, got to know them and went out together. Now people will say, you met someone, you didnt know anything about them, and you went out with them . Our whole idea of friends is ill say it all the time. A friend of mine had a baby, which friend was it . Were facebook friends. They have actually never met. So we went to school in wisconsin. Were friends. Just because you both went to madison, youre best friends. She followed my food blog, she follows my kids, i totally trust her. Peoples ideals of relationships, its all different now. Courting, wasnt that fun . You meet somebody and its exciting. You waited. Its not like that. When you were dating your fiance. Yeah. What was your courting process like . We met at work, so it was like taboo. And they put the fear of god into you by saying, dont touch your coworkers, dont compliment them. We have to, its a litigious nation, but the math is upwards of 60 of people meet at work. Theres something here. No, he has to come. My daughter. Come over here. My kids are here. Jack, he doesnt have to come over here. He wont. Hes terrified. He is . Okay. We want to point out that carsons fiancee and two beautiful kids are here. Thank you. You know what . First of all, how great is your fiancee . Shes fantastic. Shes fantastic. Theres a special question do you know her . I met her a few times. I like her. Give me a platform. There is one of those New York Times has those social cues questions. One is, a couple had been living together for a while. And the girl was getting antsy because the guy hadnt proposed. How long did you live together before you proposed . There was no pressure. Listen, youre really asking me these things . Im just curious. Shes thinking of breaking up with this guy because he hasnt proposed. I think youre in trouble if your pecking order your priority list is in that way. Lets preface this by saying its different for everybody. All of us have different dynamics in our relationships. For us, were a bit abnormal and we took probably the road less travels. We have two children, were building a family, we lived together. We just want to point out, what picture is this . What photo i was watching this program for the very first time. We have a tv on the beach. And were like, 10 00 a. M. , put hoda on. But listen, i think in all seriousness, the end game is really what its about, right . For us, we wanted to be a family together forever. And the path to get there in 2014 is a different path than it was for our parents generation. I cant take my eyes off your two beautiful kids. I dont allow them to be photographed and this whole episode gegee. Shes here, too. Lets talk about concert tickets. Lets see if you agree with these. Predictions based on ticket searchers showed these are the top five concerts. Number five was billy joel. Four, miley cyrus. Number three this is last year . Yes. Okay. 2014 up and coming. These are the hot ticket up and coming. Number three is one direction. Two, george strait. And number one, lady gaga. Wow. What do you think the. They all make sense. George strait getting that much, interesting. Miley, i thought she might be higher. She stands to gross a lot. Marquee acts like madonna and u2 that are big acts in the year. One direction is certainly hot. Lady gaga is interesting because a lot of people counted her out. She even made fun of herself on the vmas. Opened up, lady gaga is gone. But im a big fan of hers. She was on the voice finale. She puts on a great show. When you spend 20, 30, 40, 50 for a ticket, you want that return. People say she has to i dont want to say outweird, but do something crazier every time shes in public, on stage. Theres a model and its madonna. Shes been around for three, four decades, constantly reinventing herself. Those are important things you need do do as a brand, but how do you top a meat dress . Its difficult. You have to go away, come back. 2014 will be interesting what miley cyrus does. The shock value is out there. Whats the next move . Speaking of the new year, these are things you should stop saying if youre over 30. Cray . Is that on the list, craycray . Totes. The aprieveiation for totally. Amaze balls. Its overused. Cray or craycray. If youre younger, you just say cray . I think people use it ironically now. I see it a lot in tweets. I dont think they mean to say it but they do and its terrible. What about adorbs . I never heard that. I hate deets. Short for details. Call me, ill give you the deets. I want to punch them. Move closer. I know, right . Say that at the end of every sentence. I know, right . In l. A. , everything is amazing. In l. A. , everything. Oh, she looks amazing. Did you see that dress . It was amazing saw the new film. Amazing. Everything. Oh, the latte there, better than across the street. Amazing. Its like, when you use your horn too much, its like, it doesnt matter. Save the horn, save amazing. Bring back amaze balls, i guess, i dont know. I want to hear your friday funny. Do you have a friday funny . I do. You do . Yeah. Kathie lee usually does this. Jacks not here, my son, but we have special time when hes in the potty, and he wait one second. He makes me sit down on the floor while hes doing the potty, and we tell knockknock jokes. Im at the point where im on my iphone, im googling. Im out of knockknock jokes, but our favorite joke is this knockknock joke. You be jack taking a crap. You be jack. Excuse me, im sorry. Knockknock. Whos there . Banana. Banana who . Knock knock. Whos there . Banana. Banana who . Knock knock. Whos there . Banana. Banana who . Knock knock. Whos there . Orange. Orange who . Orange you glad i didnt say banana . Yes, indeed. Every time, its funny. He finished, were good. Potty humor, to say the least. Its time for your johnsons baby announcement. Orange you glad im filling in . We celebrate moms and their new adorable additions to their babies. Our first is dalton reed groller. His mom said hes becoming a handsome red head. Our next baby is elena ristevski. She weighed eight pounds, nine ounces and this is the first child for the parents. Now for a baby born in neptune, new jersey. Ian james furda. He was born four weeks early, spent nine days in the icu. Hes now a healthy and strong little boy. And our final baby is noah mark buckingham. Born in springfield, missouri. His mom said hes a big cuddler who loves to be constantly held, just like al roker. Hes our cuddler. Congratulations to all of our babies, and if you want a chance for your baby to be a johnsons baby of the week, go to our website for details. I have a fascinating story. There are a lot of kids who are bullied because they think they have a big nose or something is wrong with them, so some of these kids are opting for plastic surgery. They feel like i guess its their only defense. I spoke to one little girl. Take a look. Renatta gave up hope the bullies would ever change. Theyll just keep picking on kids. That convinced her she had to change. Through cosmetic surgery. I had this operation done, it would probably change my whole life. In a good way, though. Can a scalpel change how these children are feeling . I think we have seen it makes a difference. Dr. Thomas romo, a plastic surgeon, and his wife diane run the little baby face foundation, the group renatta and her mom heard about on the news. You take a child and change the way they look to anyone who sees them, that gives the child strength. Do you feel like the bully wins . The bully bullied them into getting some kind of surgery . I dont think thats reality. Doesnt it put the burden on the victim as opposed to the bully . Is it sending the wrong message . If they see you getting the surgery, i think it would make them feel bad, and maybe they would change their mind about doing it. Its fascinating, very debatable story. It airs sunday night at 7 00 central. Do you ever feel like youre speaking a different language when youre talking to the opposite sex . Did you Say Something . Exactly. Right after this. Asionaconstipation, diarrhea, gas, bloating . Yes one Phillips Colon Health probiotic cap each day helps defend against these digestive issues. With three strains of good bacteria. [ Phillips Lady ] live the regular life. Phillips. [ Phillips Lady ] live the regular life. Across the country has brought me to the lovely city of boston. Cheers. And seeing as its such a historic city, im sure theyll appreciate that geicos been saving people money for over 75 years. Oh. Dear, ive dropped my tea into the boston harbor. Huhh. 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We sort of know this, men and women do speak different languages, right . We know this. The university of pennsylvania came out with a really interesting study where they scanned hundreds of brains and they can show the connectivity differences. Womens brains are so connected, they look like spaghetti, really. And men, its very linear. Very front to back, very focused. Is it true were good multitaskers and theyre not. What about communicating . Why are we off . When i say things that i think are very clear, why arent you understanding the words coming out of my mouth, sort of thing. Theres a disconnect . Men want to execute. Right, so the male brain is wired. Were going to perceive things and we want to do something about that. My wife has a problem, i want to solve it. Women, their brain is more side to side. Theyre thinking in a more broadly way. I kind of prefer the female brain. You think using this logical part and this creative part. A lot of guys think you want a Problem Solved when you want to vent. We think thats the goal, of an issue. Lets identify the issue, communicate it, and come to some sort of mutual agreement, but lets solve the issue. Were like cavemen, just fix. Sometimes we just want to vent and let it out. Whats the best way to let carson listen to his girlfriend and let her listen back and forth . The idea is you really have to understand you are connected differently. So for a woman, we dont want to hear it, but you have to edit. Pare it down, try to take some of the emotion out of it. Always, choose your time. If hes watching a game, busy at work, youve got to know, hes focused. Say, hey, can we talk in a little bit . When the yankees are over, well talk. What should guys do to, you know, better hear out women . I think guys should act confused a little more. Say im not really sure about that. Do that on purpose . I think you are confused, usually, sometimes, and theres a lot of emotion, a lot of venting. Youre not sure. Be confused. Its very authentic. Maybe we shouldnt be so quick to solve. I can fix your problem. Maybe its just listening. Like interviewing. Great tip. You dont need to solve it. Men have this pressure, we want to solve it, fix it, do something. You can sit and listen and come out much better. Sometimes it works that way, too, with texting and emails. Well write something that is long and drawn out with feeling and emotion, and a guy will write back, yep, or no, or im not sure. You cant emote when youre using social media, so things are lost there, too. Dont text your relationship. Thats important for couples. You cant really get into a lot of details or feelings when youre in text. Its not even feelings. Its realizing youre more than a double task. Dont yep me. Dont lol me. Theres a female brain at work. Shes looking into the texts, reading a lot into them. In my relationship, siri prefers im usually, can you just call me . I feel like we can solve it quicker, but she prefers to write things down. Maybe to have you on the record. Okay, well, thank you so much. We appreciate your insight. Did you put on a little weight over the holidays . Go ahead, you can have the peppermint bark. Well show you tricks to dress down the pounds. Just the segment i have been waiting for. Dont let those rough, dry hands get you down, everybody. Bobbie thomas with the best products to hydrate right after this. My mother and my grandmother are very old fashioned. I think we both are clean freaks. I used to scrub the floor on my knees. [ daughter ] ive mastered the art of foot cleaning. Oh, boy. Oh, boy. Oh, boy. [ carmel ] that drives me nuts. It gives me anxiety just thinking about how crazy they get. [ doorbell rings ] [ daughter ] oh, wow. [ carmel ] swiffer wetjet. You guys should try this. Its so easy. Oh, my. [ gasps ] i just washed this floor. 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Happy new year to you. These segments are the best because you dont have to do anything. You just find a betting outfit. Like a work out in your wardrobe. Were going to start off with a photo of chiara. Lets look and you tell us what shes doing wrong. Shes wearing prints, but on the bottom. Youre putting attention on the bottom, an area you want to draw the eyes away from, and theres no statement drawing you up to her face. You dont have to avoid prints entirely. What have you done . Nice. Nice before, by the way. Prints, you dont want to avoid them entirely, you want to look for the right print. This is a power prints dress from maggie london. Theres a bit of an optical illusion with the triangle pointed to the waist line. Its cinching her waist, and you want to be a grazer with your fashion. Nothing too tight, nothing too loose. You want the clothes to really graze your body. Then with the blazer, structure. Shows off the shoulders, nips right at the waist, and its all about proportion, so dont look for a bag thats too small. This is a great example, the right amount of size. Just in the middle, nothing too small, nothing too big. It really gives her the right size. Thank you. Next, we have veronica. Lets take a look at a picture of veronica in a typical outfit. What did you see . A couple things. Shes sticking with the dark colors that are making her look like a blob. Shes not cinching the waist. Also, paints way too short. Do you want to see it . I cant wait. Monochromatic with a pop. Dont steer all towards black. Go for a great jewel tone color like this, matching pants with a cami, showing off the waist with the pop, the belt, and the leopard print, and if you also notice, her shoes in the same color family. Thats just going to elongate the leg. Got it. Just finding flattering clothing. Finding tips to help you look your best. Exactly. You all have these kind of things in your closet. Its putting the right combinations together. Than