You say, why do you guys always wear sleeveless. So we did what you asked us. We wore sleeves. And it feels a little bit its warm. Restrictive. Were under a whole bunch of lights here and it is warm. So even when youre freezing, looking at it snowing and everything else, try to remember were under damaging lights. And we also are peri or post menopausal. One of the two. You also asked us to slow down. Not our speaking, the segment should be a little longer. Yes. Were always i agree with that. We rush it and we should stop talking over people. We dont do that. What . I didnt hear what you said. And you want to hear about very, very affordable places you can travel to. So were going to tell you about those. And you wanted fashions for all ages, shapes and sizes, so you know what were going to do . Were going to bring you that too. Were bringing it directly to hugh. Bobbie is also people ask this about bobbie, how does she get her thick beautiful eyelashes. Bobbie will show us how she does that in her segment, bobbies buzz and so much more. This is the show you asked for and you got it. We hear you. When you tweet us, we listen. And we care. Oh, so much. Phil galanos, he got an interesting question about an unusual thank you. Apparently a parent of a 5yearold, the daughter attended a Birthday Party and after the Birthday Party, the parents decided that the young girl should not write a thank you note to thank people for the gifts she got. Instead, they say in lieu of the thank you note, were going to make a charitable donation. They were basically saying, look, my it is a 5yearold, shes not going to be writing thank you notes, instead well give money to this group. Question is, do you think thats an okay thing to do. Well, lets see what philip said. He said the time for doing something charitable was before the party in lieu of gifts. So now it is going to cost these people twice. You see what im saying . They bought a gift but isnt the i thought it was the receiver writing the thank you note. Thats what i thought too until we just read it. It is. It is the receiver. The girl that got the presents, her parents say, we got all these presents, were not going to write 25 thank you notes, were going to instead give a charitable donation. Thank you for all the gifts you brought to us. And now were going to make a donation in the name of the school. You know what, this isnt something that hugh wanted, is it . I think we should know what were talking about before we come on the air. No, heres the thing, should 5yearolds, is that too young to write thank you notes . I dont think so. I tried to teach our kids to do it very early. You know what they have, for a little kid, it is a form, and it says dear and they write out the name, thank you for the and it doesnt have to be the idea of being you can draw a picture. Doesnt have to be an actual written note. You should always send thank you notes. Here is a question. When you go on a date with someone, how much time do you think you have to impress your date . Okay . Or vice versa . Apparently there is a study out there from the Insurance Company called axa and they say you have 12 minutes. How do they know . Because axa had a timer on all the dates people went on. How weird. So people judge really quickly on things like smile, voice tone, eye contact, some basic and two biggest turnoffs immediately are body odor and bad breath. I can understand that. Followed closely by swearing. You know what, i think thats such a turnoff. Sometimes i do it. I noticed. I do it and i dont mean it. Im afraid someone is going startle me on the air. If it comes out of your mouth, it is in your vocabulary. I know it is in mine. Im always fearful something is going to happen because ill be frightened and scream. Never do a youtube videos where someone sees a tornado. I would be the one screaming curse words as it was coming and i dont think it is my personality, but it is in me. Thats a bad thing. I think 12 minutes is too long. I think i would know very, very quickly. Yeah. Thats why it is good to go to lunch. First date, make it lunch and drive yourself. They say you can tell everything about a man one dinner date at a restaurant. You can see if hes polite to you, what he says to the waiter or waitress. How he treats people, does he get your coat, does he pay the bill quickly. Does he order his drink first or and then ask you or there was a bartender, i was at a bar with my friend and he my friend ordered ordered drinks for both of us, and the bartender said, who is having the vodka with the twist. He said, she is. He said to me. And the bartender says i always know if a couple is going to work or not if the man orders the womans drink first and then his. If he orders his drink first, the relationship hes a selfish jerk. Doomed, over. Okay. There is a way to be artful when you pack a lunch. Some people are over the top creative. This one doesnt take a lot of time. Sometimes you think moms have all kinds of time to make a beautifully packed lunch. Grace halls 6yearold son wasnt a fan of lunches, so she took a new approach. She turned the food into edible art. Look at some of the things she made. Six minutes. Look. 15 minutes is what i meant. So, look, she had apparently some kind of cut out for a dinosaur. Cute. Thats adorable. Oh, my gosh. For halloween. Now everybody the mothers shes got to think of something new every time . No, no, no. Angry birds, thats so oh, my god, the funny face bagel. That looks easy. All you had to do is put the blueberries in. I think thats shell have to top herself all the time. I think how cool for a kid to open up your lunch box and see Something Like that. She said dinner leftovers are put to good use. Her blog is called eat amazing, 7500 thats very cute. You know what it is time for . Friday funny. I love it. Okay. Husband was excited to leave work at end of a long day and get home to his new wife. When he walked through the door, his wife ran up to him and said, honey, i have great news for you, pretty soon were going to be three in this house instead of two. The husband was so excited by this shocking news that he picked up his wife, spun her around and kissed her. That is the best news ever, he replied. Im so glad you feel that way, his wife said, because my mother moves in with us tomorrow. I like it. Keep them coming. It is time for our fan friday. Remember, we told you we want to put your faces on tv or things you say. Every friday well show some the things youre sharing with us on our Facebook Page. Annie sent us this tweet. Her daughter hanna and a friend caroline did a dialogue between kathie lee and hoda at their middle school in illinois. Oh, my gosh. That is adorable. Check out kristens amazing greeting. He comes running to the tv every time the theme music comes on. Oh, my gosh. Oh, my gosh. Lets watch it again. From studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. How fun. I didnt see the whole thing. I wasnt looking. Can we show it again . Oh, my god. Oh, my gosh. Amy said she watched all the way through pregnancy. Thats lovely. If you have something you want to share with us, post it on our Facebook Page and we might show it on the air. Probably not. No, well try. Johnsons baby of the week announcements. This is when we celebrate our new moms and adorable new additions to their families. First johnsons baby of the week, Eli Jay Heine from iowa on march 14th. His parents say every possible moment with your child. Is it heine or heine . I think thats awesome. Our next baby born in bristol, connecticut on april 11th, kariliana marie ruiz. Her parents say shes such a blessing, of course she is, to both of them. And from alaska, August Edward graf. August came in on april 1st. His parents leann and gabe offer this advice to first time parents. Hang in there. It starts out rough with a lack of sleep, but it gets better over time. And our final johnsons baby stop it, hoda our final johnsons baby of the week, esme aiyana sanchez, born on march 10th in boise, idaho. They say she smiled the day she was born and smiled every day since. Dont tell them its gas. Congratulations to all of our babies. If you want to submit your pictures, go to klgandhoda. Com. Hit the connect button. Those kids are so cute. Its hot in here. Were wearing sleeves for you. Remember, this whole show is all for you. Get ready to for hugh. We have great affordable destinations just for you coming up. And theyre back, Matthew Hussey and e. Jean carroll here to answer all your relationship questions. Because you asked for it after this. Oilet 6 or 7 times a day. Like clockwork, every 20 minutes i clean the toilet. Sometimes i get up in the middle of the night and clean the toilet. 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Hoda says shes going to behave herself now. Our favorite pair when it comes to relationship advice are here with all their opinions. Today contributing love strategist Matthew Hussey and elle advice columnist e. Jean carroll ready to answer all your questions. Stacy says, asked this question, my husband and i are going through a really hard time. When he sees me looking frazzled, hell ask me whats wrong, but when i try talking about it, ill always end up in a huge fight and im wanting drama. On the other hand, if i dont say anything or tell him nothing is wrong, it will end up in a huge fight because i shut him out. What am i supposed to do . Tough one. The thing about this is every guy wants to feel significant in the way hes able to deal with the problem. So if she starts communicating in a way where it is, like, youre more for me to chew on, another person in the day im going to vent to, it wont work. If she came home and said, he said to her, honey, whats wrong . And she says, it is nothing, it made me miss you so much today what happened at work, and came over and give her a take your time. She came over and gave him a big hug and said i missed you so much, all of a sudden, he melts. But the drama thing, if he feels like hes just another pair of ears, it wont work. If she goes quiet, hell feel like he cant fix it. Three things. First. To the husband of this woman, run shes dangerous. If she blows up, if she talks, she blows up, if she doesnt talk, she blows up, if he talks i think take that energy youre saying divorce. Divorce is the first solution. She likes drama. Take the energy, get a costume, a french maid outfit and beat him about the loins and haunches with a feather duster. Thats it. I like both answers. Okay. Its either divorce or madness. Thats the answer every time. Welcome to e. Jeans world. Once a relationship starts to get serious, i start to get cold feet. But if the guy is not wanting a relationship, im somewhat drawn to him. So whats my problem . I wonder if she realizes just how insecure she sounds. Because this is someone with a genuine this, to me, is the idea of unrequited love. Which i find a disgusting, unromantic concept. Wow. I like you, i like you, i like you, i like you, but you dont like me so i like you more. I think thats a normal human emotion, whennen someone leans back, you lean in. No, there is a different. I want you to chase me a little bit but guys dont play that game. Women might, but men dont play that game. I have a key rule in relationships. If you want to be in a relationship with me, you have to adore me. Thats what turns me on. You not wanting me doesnt turn me on. And if people would just follow that principle, like who likes you, theyll never go far. Women say they want a nice guy. But show a woman who will treat her bad who will ignore her, she will trample over her own mother. After 20 years of writing the e. Jean questions, the ratio is this, on average. Women will fall for five [ bleep ] before they fall for a nice guy. Women dont want a nice guy or a [ bleep ]. Here is who they want. You keep saying that word. E. Jean set the tone. I just went down there. The key for a woman is to find a good man with an edge. They dont want either. They dont want the bad boy and they dont want nice guy. They want what they cant have. Thats a commentary on someones selfworth, i want someone who doesnt want me. We have to grow out of this idea that it is somehow romantic to chase after someone who doesnt want you. It is all about the hunt, the chase, the pursuit. As soon as someone likes me, i suddenly feel like im, you know, you like me, there must be something wrong with you. You dont like me, you must be pretty special. I dont want to be a member of any club that would have me as a member. This is a problem. Not a good thing it is not something we should encourage. I think it is human nature. I think confident people are turned on by people who want them. Not by people who dont. I think frank chases kathie lee around. I think the chase is interesting. I think you neither of us run anymore. We limp around, but thats about it. We got to go, e. Jean. You wanted longer segments. But there is an end to everything. All right. If you have questions for this crazy pair, go to klgandhoda. Com. Hit the connect button. Get ready to lash out. Were going slow. Bobbies all abuzz about false eyelashes and how to apply them right after this. Mmis that ice cream . Mmm uh, no, its breyers gelato indulgences. You really wouldnt like it. Its got caramel and crunchy stuff. I like caramel and crunchy stuff. [ female announcer ] new breyers gelato indulgences its way beyond ice cream. Sfx car unlock beep. Vo davids heart attack didnt come with a warning. Today his doctor has him on a bayer aspirin regimen to help reduce the risk of another one. If youve had a heart attack be sure to talk to your doctor before you begin an aspirin regimen. Its time for bobbies buzz. Apparently you asked how to fake it, when it comes to getting long, luxurious eyelashes. This week our today style editor and bobbie. Coms Bobbie Thomas is here to show us what to buy and how to apply. People have been asking about your eyelashes. All the time. You have gorgeous eyes anyway. Thank you. It takes time to get them there. Youll see i have eyelashes on. You may not be able to tell. Some people ask me if my eyelashes are real. And they are underneath the pair i have some under there, but the key is what to buy. You want to buy eyelashes that sort of resemble your own. That might go against your intuition because you might think you want really long lashes, but you dont. Stay away from styles that are too clean on the edge. When theyre too even, it looks fake. Go for the more natural fringe, youll see on the side. Those sell out in new york all the time from elite, number 18. Number 110 from ardell, bestseller, youll see right here. 110. Right here. Because it has a really light natural line. I like that. People ask also about individual eyelashes. Youll see those here. Individuals are great. They take a lot of time, hard to keep on , put on if you have bad eyesight. Go for the accents, ardell makes these, but they look natural when you put them on half your eye. 30 seconds. Are they easy to put on . Dark is good because it blends away into your makeup. If you want latex free, go for that in the hypoallergenic. You want to apply the glue on the underside. This is important because most people put the glue on the edge and thats not thats not sitting on your eye. Right there. Thank you, bobbie. Ill show you the video online, all you do is put this on and the best thing ever is this. See this. Well be back. Bye. Were back on this try day friday with the special you asked for it edition of today filled with stories you said you would like to see. One thing you wanted was longer segments. Because we had to cut bobbie off earlier, shell stick around to show us how she puts the false eyelashes on a little bit later. Now we have affordable travel choices for real budgets. Thats right. From sunny beach getaways to cruises and resorts with plenty of amenities, here with options that wont break the bank is Budget Travel contributing editor darlene newman. These are affordable. What our viewer is really asking about. Affordable meaning under 100 a day. That is a great rate. Cant stay home for that. Better not. Myrtle beach is one you chose. Myrtle beach, thats where im from. So close to my heart. But beautiful wide sandy beaches, great for multiple generations. Grandparents, parents, kids, everyone can have fun there. You can go play skee ball or have amazing night life. There are so many Music Options from the house of blues to the carolina opry. There is tons for everyone to do in myrtle beach. Where can you stay . We have a great west gate ocean front resort, ocean front, and 75 and up. There is a beautiful heated pool. Kids eat free. Thats nice and family friendly. And cruises are also something a lot of families like to take together. Cruises are popular. Theyre popular with Budget Travel readers. The norwegian getaway. How about the eastern part of the caribbean . Thats where this sails. A brandnew ship, huge. One of these floating cities. There is tons to do on the ship, of course, including things like mini golf. But there are 28 different dining options. So if youre a foodie this might be a good choice for you. And if you love the eastern caribbean, you can see Beautiful Spots like nassau and st. Thomas and the price, you cant beat it. 449 for seven days. Thats 449 . Amazing. Is that for food and everything . Yes, 65 a day for this cruise. We should be on it, right . All right. So you say lets head north to atlantic, canada. This is a lesser known charming. Lesser known destination. Were talking about nova scotia in atlantic, canada. Here you can go out and do wonderful Outdoor Adventure activities, whether you want to do whale watching or kayaking. You are going to love this. Because nova scotia boasts more pubs per capita than anywhere else in the world. So, hello, i know were loving this. Long winters there in nova scotia. Exactly. It is charming. There is a wine region of nova scotia, a mini napa valley. You can have your beer, your wine, i suggest doing the whale watching first. And you can stay at the