With warm water to literally scrub it from yesterday, and i got a tweet from mi ndshis the blindspot, and she was here, and she said, good luck getting it off, because it takes a village. And hody, to remove the tat. And not soap and water. So weird. And you put it front and center so proud. Hoda, you are going to talk about the boys is . Yes, the boys are back in town and answer questions about thercy,anhtf t uftdt ar ngo usoit ye i do, those two. And then it is e fiesta in the kitchen and make a kicked up version of one of your favorites tacos. And one of the most inspirational speakers i wls here, pastor joel olsteen, and find the out what he wants you to say every single day that could change your life. Yes, he has a new very good book out, too. And last night, there was some fun last night with john stamos. And the bold and the lyrical, and the two are supposeo recite lyrics from the songs and they make a cheesy soap opera scene. Darling, im a nightmare dressed like a daydream. Shake it off. Im going to dress it off. A players going to play, play, play. And the haters are going to hate, hate, hate, hate. And go on to tell your friends that im obsessive and crazy. And tonights the night that we forget about heartbreak and dress up like hipsters and make up with our exes and i dont know about you, but im feeling 22. That so great. They are all great. So fun. If you were home watching the voice last night and it was the last night of the final auditions which is fun and the coaches have their final team. And last night, each coach had a couple of spots, but we those these that had all of the coaches turning. And so they had shelby on there who did her own version of a song from the nocturnals. I cant look at you the same same at the time that you love i know that you have gone too far so i i cant look at the star s i, i, i cant look at the stars and she picked team adam, but she wanted blake. Yes, and she went for adam. And you know what is so funny when you hear your child sing all of the time, and you never know ifhes o , od n vs an twhevry as hedhaah turned. My family said they wished i would not go for the high notes. Dont go there. And dear, god, here she goes. I finally learned how to do them, and now i cant do them at all. And the final appearance went to amy vashelle. Dream a little dream . Yes. Dream of me and tell me that you are listening while im alone and blue as can be dream a little dream of me please, lord pick me. Remember when kath cass sang it. From the mamas and the papas. I knew it was the mamas and the papas, and what is the papas names . Denny wilson and john and who was the other mama . Oh, michelle phillips. It is coming together full circle now. Mama cass and michelle phillips. That is so generational. And now, and dam has sheaed his head. He went all of the way. Is that a statement or because . That is i doubt it a cure for life. And have you been to a party or had a friend ask you a question that is rude, and ask you something that is innocent we question and sometimes isnt, because sometimes it ha has to do with money or politics or all kinds of things. And people say, how much do you weigh . Who says that . And how much money do you make . I went, what i get embarrassed if anybody asks anything close to that. How do you respond . And if anybody asks me that, it is usually when i am speaking to a group of young people, and i said to them if you are asking that question, this business is not for you, because you start out making nothing. And so there was what do you do. Com. And i dont call it a stayathome mom, but it is a work at home mom, because having had a career and also having raised children, and raising fine children is the hardest job in the world and what do you do is a little bit offputting. Yes, yes. And if you are at a party or out at a bar or out with people, and after, where where are you from and do you have brothers and sisters, and what do you do . They say instead of saying that, you should ask this, what is ke keeping you busy . I dont want anybody to ask that, because that d business. Then you start to panic, what does that mean . That is an odd question, why do you ask that. Put it back on them, and not a mean way, but why in the world would you ask such a thing. And some people ask, do you v have a boyfriend or girlfriend yet . Yet. These are all rude. If you dropped off the yet, it might be fine. And maybe they dont want to talk about it. Aneek, i am still looking, and i just blew it off. And you use it with humor, and somebody asked you what you made and not enough, and we try to have humor and sometimes it is offputting, and people when they give you their opinion about something, one time i did say to a woman that i gee, saw her coming like this, and i said here comes from trouble, and i love you and rejis and i watch everyday but that is when you walk away. But i have to tell you something. No, you dont. Nothing compels you. That white dress you had on the other day, awful. I just looked at her and i said, im sorry, but i dont remember asking you, and i did not do it in a mean way at all, but i dont remember asking you, and then i said, you have to understand something, you may see me on television, and im a human being and i have feelings and you are allowed the opinion, but why would you Say Something that is unkind. She did it all in front of her friends. And so there is a way to let people know that they have no right to be asking certain questions. One lady walked up to me in the mall, and she said, ooh, i thought that you were so much bigger, turn around. And you know what i did . The sad part . I turned around. You turned around. And i said, why am i spinning for this crazy person. And she said, yeah, you are not as big as i thought, bye. Bye. I am still thinking of it. And i was in alabama jacks and the 80 yearold ladies were clogging and she came right over and said, you are a whole lot better on tv. Anyway. You have to have a sense of humor. This could be your week, and we will tell you what to say. And joel osteen will daddy gator couldnt push the throttle on his little boat any harder if he tried. Hes beached here, gazing out on an unforgiving landscape. For while the people who come in here use quilted northern, a toilet paper that works so well they completely forget their experience. Daddy gator sees all and forgets nothing. Ive got to motor out of here, he thinks. This is no place to raise a child. Quilted northern. 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And it is easier to go around saying or thinking, i am unattractive or unlucky and this, but to me, it is just inviting the wrong things in your life whereas the if you will turn it around and maybe not how you feel, but i am blessed, and im happy and im a child of god. It changes and you are inviting the right things in your life, but it is not being positive, but it is changing your mind of how to create a new way of thinking. How do you write a new book on that concept . I took one chapters to talk about the power of the word. Be positive or be quiet. If you are not going to say anything good, dont say it bad. Then i do 17 chapters of i am i am strong, i am victorious, i am patient. And just give the reader encouragement and inspiration. And if you are going through a difficult time in your life, an ill ness or breakup, and you are not feeling joyful or any of those thing, what should that person do . Well, it is important to find something to be grateful about, and it is easier to be bitter and discouraging, and god, why did this happen to me, an when you are discouraged, it is going to push you down further, and i want to encourage you to get up and say, lord, thank you for this day. And this, too, you have to be happy where you are before you can get to the next place and you say, im bitter because of the job or this loss or what, and lit keep you there, and you have to say, god, im not perfect, but i will be content and be good to somebody else. And what about the people who look around and say how can a loving god allow this to happen, and christians being behead and children and things being done. And how can a loving god allow it to happen . Well, kathy e lee, god has given us free will, and he did not make us robots, and we will get to the place where there is no evil or harm, but here god gives us free will, and some People Choose to do it for evil and harm. And some peo a defined by the scars. If you meet someone, and look, im a cancer survivor and sometimesly say that, but sometimes i will say thax but sometimes it is the the sole definition, and some people are defined by the scars, and that is hard to get out of, isnt it . Yes, but what you said is so important, dont let one event or two events define your life, a divorce or a bad breakup, and it is one moment in your life, and god has written every day of our life in the book, and sometimes you are stuck in a ch chapter, and maybe you are stuck in a chapter, but encourage you to keep moving forward to come into another chapter. And isnt it who you surround yourselves with. And people who are reenforcing the good in you and make you feel good about who you are. That is important and that is the biggest thing to get people off course is the people th are hanging out with, because you will become like them, and sometimes we think that we will change them, but too often they change us. 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Yes. Sorry, taken, hoda. Well, good to know. Good to know. So is she, soon. And last but not least, the still divorced paul kinney who plays in a band and has a new song called the single and hungry well, it is difficult out there. And you have news . I got engaged on labor day. Wait a second. You are gog lose all of the charm. Wait, bob. Are we thinking about and soon i will be sad and divorced, but i am engaged. I have gotten engaged a lot. All right. Breaking news. And lets go across the street. Hi, hon. Howdy, im donna from livingston, texas, and id like to know how guys know that she is the one . All right. Guys, i have to take this. And bob, lets start with you, because you have found the one. Clearly by me it is trial and error and i suggest that you get married as many times as possible, and sooner or later, you will find the one. For me, i grew up in church and we prayed for the one and i had a checklist and i realized that my wife is about the checklist and i think that i better go ahead and i think that this is the one that god sent. Look, i host a show on mtv called are you the one wednesdays at 10 00, and so what we do, guys is that we take a couple that thinks that they might be a perfect match, and we put them into the truth booth and the truth booth tells you if you are the one, and so, donna, come on my show, and we will put you in the truth booth. And the girl gives you the inside spoon for more than 3 of the time. The what . The inside spoon. And you know, the inside spoon and the outside spoon. And every guy wants a little bit of time, and ask your boyfriend, do you want that, he is like, i dont know. And every guy wants that. And threetoe sloth or swadle little baby jesus. You are on probation any time. I will spoon with you, any time, kathie. Any time. I wish we could go to commercial, but we cant. One more. Katy wants to know whats the perfect date night like for a wife to take her husband on, your perfect night. Have a plan. You want to have a plan. So many times you go, what do you want to know, and what do you want to know . And dominate us with the details. It is about married people. Okay. Why are we yelling . All i need is someone who will take care of the kid. If the kid is taken care of, and i mean, we can do whatever, and we can sit on the bench and eating hot dogs as long as the eating hot dogs as long as the kid is sure i offer multicar, safe driver, and so many other discounts that people think im a big deal. And boy, are they right. Ladies, i can share hundreds in savings with all of you just visit progressive. Com today. But right now, its choosing time. Ooh we have a winner. All what . [chuckles] hes supposed to pick one of us. This is a joke, right . That was the whole point of us being here. 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Well check your weather and traffic after the break. Another comfortable day across the bay with mostly sunny skies. Expect a high of 80 degrees in gilroy. In san carlos, 73 degrees. Outer Richmond District at 65 degrees. And 85 in fairfield while napa tops out at 78. 74 in oakland. And san ramon will see a high of 9 did 79. Lets see how the roads are flowing now with mike. Northbound 101, while the crash is cleared, the one by the airport and the one in Mountain View a while before that. Were still having that recovery for 101. 280 looks better and so does 85. South through fremont, 880, look at that. San mateo and bay bridge, a little slow. Well give you the live look. San mateo bridge, the last five minutes have been very good from the east bay to the peninsula. Toll plaza at the bay bridge, still have the backup for all lanes. Goes back just past that 880 overcross. Back to you. Thanks, mike. Join us at 11 00. Well see you then. News at 11 00. Okay. Is boozeday tuesday, hodas favorite, and we are back with the guys tell all. And jared freed and newlyweds rick and ryan and newly engaged bob. Ok okay. Question across the street. And im nancy from spearfish, south dakota, and i want to know why so few men appreciate a strongwilled woman. I dont know what you are talking the about, and like i said before, make a plan. You want a woman charge . Yeah. If the guy has a problem with you havin