Dear Thelma: We are angry and want to leave our cheating dad
I'm sorry that you are unhappy. Your mum and dad are married, and he's been cheating. They may decide this is a deal-breaker. Or they may see this as an opportunity for change and rebuilding their relationship. Whatever they do, it's their decision. However, generally speaking it is a bad idea for children to become involved in their parents' marriage. This is because children have a unique relationship with their parents (whether they like them or not). When we are small, we look up to our parents. They are all powerful, and we look to them to love us unconditionally, to guide us, and to pr...