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I just had heard of a dave. that was about it. >> she didn't talk about him? >> no. usually, things like that she didn't really talk to me about. >> reporter: "dave," that's all her family knew. >> she was -- she was in a very good place. i mean, she had been for a long time, and i didn't think too much about it. >> reporter: and so that weekend, nancy picked up max and later cari drove off to omaha. to spend the week with dave. >> she didn't text me or anything that -- that monday. and then i started getting text messages, saying that she -- had quit her job. she was going to kansas to live. ...

It appeared cari unfriended dave. >> the fact that they had the temerity to actually be facebook friends. this is one of the very first acts the defendant takes to actually eliminate that facebook friendship. >> reporter: and from then on in cyperspace liz became cari. >> all for the purpose -- for the reason of convincing people, her friends, her family relatives, everyone, that she was still alive. >> reporter: nancy went to court every day for the trial, heard the details for the very first time. >> when i heard all of those -- what this person was doing in her name, it just made me so angr...

Golyar. county detectives made sure to do a 'phone dump' from both of their devices to preserve the evidence and perhaps figure out where cari was. there was even a link to a fake obituary for liz. >> "go see what i made for the whore. i will kill her and i already made her obituary so it's done." then minutes later -- >> "i am trying to hire someone to get rid of that whore liz for us. you told me before you wanted her gone. do we want to pay just for the whore or her two kids too? i hope to see you soon your beautiful cari." >> trying to enlist you -- >> oh yeah. >> in her scheme. >> it tota...

She just -- she had a brain on her. >> reporter: different than the women you had dated before? >> the majority of 'em, yeah. yeah, she -- well, for instance, what she did for a living -- programming. i considered myself a little bit of a computer nerd. but compared to her i didn't even know what a computer was. >> reporter: dave reconsidered ob his "no commitment" rule. a rule he'd broken before with a woman named amy flora. they had two kids together. but it didn't last. >> after 12 years, you would think there would be some kind of a proposal or something. but like i said, he's kind of -- [...

Went to her garage, and there, scrawled on the wall, she found the words, whore from dave. had to have been cari. all of it was so strange thought the detectives. >> very out of the ordinary. >> reporter: like maybe she'd had a breakdown or something, like a psychotic episode, and -- >> that would be the only answer. >> reporter: to the police in omaha, cari was now a suspected stalker, but back home in pottawattamie county, iowa, she was still a missing person with a very worried family. cari's mother heard about the threatening texts, the harassment, the police reports filed against her daug...