Of steps and you also have to ask the person whether they want to lead or follow. you can'tjust go up and assume someone will be able to dance with you — some people only do one or the other. so before i danced with vishesh i was dancing i with a female partner, | so we used to compete in the mainstream, and then we actually ended up - in a relationship and i wanted to dance with vishesh, - so we decided to dance together, to compete together, _ and we've been competing now for five years since. _ we recently became uk equality champions. - to give it that mainstream attention and making it ...