Drew Barrymore: Becoming a mother was isolating
She added: "I find I'm good to squeeze in alone time, me time, when they're busy. That helps absolve the guilt. Like while they're in school or at a play date, and somehow that feels a little less guilty." And the âCharlieâs Angelsâ star also told viewers they're not alone if they've wanted to scream after being told to be more "present" with their children. She said: "You know, as a parent, when you're not leaning in enough. The only advice I have for a mom to be present is when she is by herself. That's when they should be present!"