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Aggressive with at least one other woman after he had a few drinks. >> i thought, wow, flowers. how nice. i thought he's such a gentleman. >> becky was working as a bartender dating toolan once. >> we had dinner plans. at the new york athletic club. that's a nice date. >> it didn't turn out that way. dinner was pleasant and then came drinks. >> that's when he accused me of flirting with the bartender. i was having a conversation with the bartender. >> she said toolan tried to grope her. when she reached her street, she didn't wait around. >> i jumped out and i ran. i literally ran across the s...

Was an incredibly dark painting thinking this painting reminds me of tom toolan. >> as bizarre as it sounds >> that was the moment that tom toolan picked to propose to her. he chose the most public place possible. a gallery in this world famous museum, the metropolitan museum of art. he proposed to beth before but never like this. >> he pulls this ring out and gets on his knee and proposes to her again. she said i was not -- she didn't feel safe enough to say no. she knew she was in a dangerous situation so she said to him, i need more time. >> she was, like, so upset because he said, you know...

>> the trip ended badly. >> they were in a taxi and he had a temper tantrum and i guess she said let us off here. whatever she said. he turned and yelled at her and she said it was a little bit scary. >> and he was drinking. >> she said he had eight beers by the time they got to the airport and got on the plane. >> bernadette said on the way home tom asked beth what her friends thought of him. he said something chilling during the exchange that followed. something that troubled her so much she told bernadette about it right away. >> he said what did they say about me? she said something like t...

For the lochtefeld family, life would never be the same. what did you lose on that day? >> i would have to say i lost probably my best friend and confidant aside from my wife. she was my closest sibling. we got along really well. >> less llie costello got the s call. how do you remember her? >> he said he killed her. i didn't see it coming. it was shocking. >> you knew exactly who the he was? >> oh, yeah, yeah. i did. >> tom toolan was arrested within hours of the murder picked up in rhode island driving a rented car with bottles of beer and vodka in the

Apartment when she got there, got there, beth stayed and later said that things went from bad to terrible. >> he got very violent with her that night and he sexually assaulted her. i think that beth was probably sort of in a state of -- it's a confusing thing when it is somebody that you're supposedly close to violates you. my guess is that she was just probably in a state of shock and why she didn't leave that next day, i'm not exactly sure. >> by friday, october 22nd, two days after the dinner with her brother, beth decided to leave new york. friends and family say it was clear that she inte...