>> lou, you have been successful for quite awhile. the advice a friend gave me was the reason why you should get married is so you can focus. as a single guy you do not focus because you are more interested in going out and getting lucky. once you got stress out of the way, now i am going to go do great stuff. >> i think there is a misnomer that once you get the ring on on the finger -- >> i married a woman because i found her immensely attractive and wonderful jie. i am not saying that can't be part of the deal. >> that's awful. >> but it is not a done deal. >> you have to keep courting your wife. it is not like you can relax and get foot rubs. i am always trying to get out of the dog house. i am always courting. >> look at the lovely jewelry he wears. >> i love the folks who say marriage is a job. i have never understood that.