The stickers already going on the rear window of the family car. Rethinking the rat race for the freshman class is the inside story and it starts now. Welcome to inside story, im ray suarez. Ask a ced preparing to graduate high school this spring how many colleges theyve sent applications. Middle of the deck students and high flyers alike you will here what once would have sounded like crazy numbers eight 1220 12, 20 colleges. Worked hard to shape themselves into a product a marquee school would want to buy and after that thousands have simply been told no, we dont want you. Good luck wherever you end up. Well begin this look at the modern Obstacle Course of College Admission he with one familys decision. Like millions of High School Seniors nationwide anisse mc mccrossky neff has been studying hard. It will give me a sense of independence and trying to do things on my own now. But even college is months away shes not sure where shell be going this fall. Tearing me apart. This is the big decision thats supposed to set up the rest of your life. Looked at as all important where are you going to go, where is it going to be for your future and your familys future. Diane, Charter Public School in boston. She fears students like anice to schools where they can be successful. But each student should go to the most selective place they got into that they can afford. Some students dont get accepted into their dream schools or cant go because of financial reasons. I saw that said congratulations. The 18yearold was thrilled when she read her acceptance letter. I ran down the stairs to my mom and she knew that clark was one of my number ones. We were happy it was really exciting. But her excitement turned to disappointment when she found out she didnt get enough financial aid. Its kind of like sad you get into one of your top schools and then cant go because you know you just cant afford it. Its nerve wracking. Magdaline neff is a single woman with children. I feel imli. Both parents and students are feeling the stress. Huge pressure with everybody. All eyes are on a 17yearold, how many 17yearolds know what they want to do with the rest of their lives. Focusing in on certain schools. In princeton or a school theyve heard of. She tries to convince College Bound students its all about the best 70th. Where that student will shine and be pushed but not too much. But anices mother still worries about where she will end up this summer. Its snobbish of me. Anice was accepted, shes anxiously waiting to hear if she gets a scholarship. If i get a scholarship ill have enough money to go to ithaca. If i dont, ill go to framingham. I dont mind. School creating a scramble for a relatively tiny number of places in the freshman class, hopes created and dreams dashed. In his new book where you go is not who youll be he offers an antedote. Fred welcome to inside story i. Thanks to having me. If you didnt get the fat envelope for the class of 2019 that starts in september you probably still a little sore. Oh youre sore of course but the thing is your life isnt over. You know . I mean this is such a small moment in life and what weve done in this country over the last couple of decades is blow it into the largest most action life. I dont know why weve done it. People with successful careers you see theyve traveled all sorts of paths to that career. The post recession world where its not that clear that youre going to make it just if you go to college and do well. It is status anxiety, its very relevant when you say postrecession world. All americans not as confident as the future as they used to be. For more than ten years now if youve asked the americans is the country on the right track or wrong track, many have said the wrong track. I think think what youre seeing on the College Admissions mania, i have to give my kid a leg up. The elite school pay be the leg up. No money is too lavish for getting into one of these places. Dont we want strivers achievers . Sure we do. Some of the things you need to do to get into the elite school is something we want to tell our children to achieve. Stanford university only takes 5 of its applicants for the last two years. Making whether they get to excellent contingent, whether a school takes them in. And another problem is when you are gearing a kid to one of those schools youre following a very particular script that amounts to a kind of gamesmanship. You are not necessarily letting them connect to their real passion. Youre not necessarily emphasizing the substance of the achievement as much as the optic of it, its not good to get them into the most competitive school possible. It sounds like part of the problem then is that we are parties to creating unreasonable expectations. Once schools are in that five, six, 7 acceptance rate, most kids by definition simply dont have a shot. No, and so would we be helping them instead to have a more rightly understood sense of their own place in the academic universe . Yes, and thats exactly one of the things im trying to do with the book. Its even worse we say five six, 7 , thats daunting enough. Those schools with five, six or 7 , star athletes benefit from the most aggressive affirmative action, not a lot are competing for the very few slots at stanford or yale or harvard or mit. How do we unde due this . Weve talked a little bit about allow we got here. How do we unget here . We start telling the truth. Let me give you an example. Were ramping up to the president ial campaign right . We edit reality in a very selective way that gives kids a flawed message of the path to success. You read about ted cruz you read constantly that he went to princeton and hferred medical har harvard medical school. You see one educational pedigree as an explanation of success and we see the other one as almost incidental or contradiction. Thats not true. In all of those cases that educational experience wherever it was forged the person who is now standing near the top of the mountain. So if its not mentioned in an article does that mean almost by definition that that person went to run of the mill u . Thats the message. Im using the media as a result of what we all talk. They think of what you hear in your own life, the next door neighbors kid got into brown, not the next door neighbors kid goes to university of vermont. If you look at fortune 500 executives, senators, governors, you see more people who have gone to state universities or schools you never heard of than only the ivy league, only a few can be educated. I told my son, who is a very smart boy, instead of being the mart smartest kid in his class in one way or another, he is now going to a school where everyone was number one in the class. Lets not throw baby out with the bath water. For some kids it will be, but for others it wont be. Never lose sight of the fact that applying to college is not just about what is the most exclusive realm that will take me, not will i flourish, a parent or kid him or herself knows about a kids personality and where they are likely to succeed or not. Could Guidance Counselors play an Important Role in building down this arms race . They could but parents and School Administrators need to let them. Almost every School Guidance counselor would like to tell you, three have got a School Administration thats being asked by all the parents in the community how many kids do we get into harvard this year, how many kids do we get into yale . Its got to be parents reassessing how much energy they pour into it. Because if we get the energy into the fit end, we might have Higher College graduates. More likely to graduate college from a family that was not particularly affluent. We would have People Better suited for the careers that they are going into because they have had the breathing room and the time and theyve been encouraged to have a set of values that allow them to really think about what they want to do with their lives. One of the people i interviewed in the book was Condoleezza Rice and she said something smart. It takes you a while to find your passion. It takes you a while to find that combination of what means something to you and what youre good at. And she was saying it in the context she was sure she was going to be a professional pianist. She went to the university of virginia, it had a good conservatory, a good music school. She ended up finding out im not as good at music as i thought i was, and she ended up being in a much different profession. And ended up help running stanford. Which is one of the great offenders. Youre right. Where you go is not who youll be is the book. What do colleges think about the scramble for seats in the fall . Do they agree, admission mania has gone too far . One of the admissions executives, youll be surprised what he has to say, its the inside story. My name is imran garda the show is called third rail, when you watch this show youre gonna find us being unafraid. The topics will fascinate you, intrigue you. They take this seriously. Let me quote you. Theres a double standard. Could be a hypocrite youre also gonna get a show thats really fair bold. Never predictable. The should be worried about heart disease, not terrorism. I wouldnt say that at all. Youll see a show that has an impact on the conventional wisdom that goes where nobody else goes. My name is imran garda i am the host of third rail and you can find it on Al Jazeera America its two days on this boat just to get there. Unspoiled. Unseen. Under threat. Macaws, theyre at risk of disapearing in the wild. The new fight to save a species. 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I think as you stated in those words and i think as frank put puts it in his writings, its a good message, its important. 100,000 people a year come on admission tours, actually come to nyu for admissions tours. Over 60,000 apply. Probably 50,000 of them could do well, we have space for only 5,000. When i speak to the parents, sometimes when im passing one of the tours, i tell them, please guarantee your children youre going to love them no matter where they get in and protect them from the tragedy of thinking that their life depends on getting into one particular school. Theres too much mania in the process. I agree with that completely. Is there some magic match between a kid and a school that ideally we would want for every kid who wants to go . Well, the first and most important thing is that there is no magic list of schools. There is no best cool in the world for everyone school in the world for everyone. Each child t is different and when i Council Counsel the friends of my children or the children of my friends, the first thing i want to do is spend an hour or two with the prospective applicant to find out what he or she is wants. Wung thing my wife said, about our two children, honey, a lot of colleges and universities this is not the time for you to talk. But when we came off of swathmore campus, she said dad i can hear you talking. This is the Perfect Place for you. But for me its the wrong place. She was right, i was fantasizing as an academic about being in the hills of pennsylvania with brilliant people talk about nothing but ideas and reading. Swath moormore mord was more was a perfect school, an a plus school, a very different person would be right for nyu and vice versa. Havent you in the last 15 years helped make nyu one of these places that drives this mania, drives a lot of money made the place more desirable widely touted dream school isnt nyu part of what is making kids nuts . A Higher Education is a Symphony Orchestra of variations, american Higher Education in particular. And a violinist whrongs in belongs in the violin section and brass player belongs in the brass section and so on. We at flvmentyu have tried to be a we at nyu have tried to be a particular thing and thats a metaphor, a complex education in handling complexity and cacophony. Swathmore like i mentiona while ago, gives a different kind of dissonance to their students. What weve tried to do in the last decades, we try to be the best version of what we bring to the orchestra. We are very proud of the fact that weve succeeded at that and therefore weve become more attractive to the students that are right for us and we tell the students on the tour that were probably not right for most of them. Were right for those that want to get the great disciplinary education but also want to learn how to pild a community of communities amidst complexity. So how do we rebuild a situation that for so many has frankly gotten out of hand . How do we get to a place where a reached school is a reach school right reply understood, the best place for you that makes you test yourself, push yourself a little harder rather than make you feel that youre already a failure at 18 if you dont get in . The first thing i would say is this, ray, and its an undernoticed problem even in franks writings. Theres a huge problem this this country of certain segments of the population being involved in the mania that were talking about, typically the high income segments and others not knowing that any of this makes a difference. Not knowing that even going to college makes a difference. Something in which frank and i agree on absolutely, for example. Thinking that the only thing that matters is the cost of the education, usually cost indicates a variation in quality, weve got huge segments of our population that were going to leave behind if we dont get information out to them that the right match makes a difference. Once you get those people into the process then i think apropos your question, we have got to get information into the process, not just numerical information but qualitative information, real qualitative information. John sexton,ing president of New York University. Thank you for joining us. Getting in where you want to still does matter, a boost they couldnt get from any postsecondary degree. Stay with us. Its the inside story. The end of aging. Eternal youth. Eternal life or eternal youth . Curing death. Were heading from have and have nots. To a world of haves, and super haves. Can you afford to live forever . Whats wrong . If rich people who got to live longer than poor people. Then its no fair. Fault lines. Al jazeera americas hardhitting. Today they will be arrested. Groundbreaking. Theyre firing canisters of gas at us. Emmy Award Winning investigative series new episode the death of aging only on Al Jazeera America earlier in the program you heard frank bruni talk about the disorks of process of securing a place in american Higher Education. Bruni suggests that a lot more goes into where you go to college. I am joined here, that the casual dismissal of an ivey League Education is misguided. Welcome to the program. Does it matter where you go to school . Hi ray, glad to be here. Absolutely, for a large Cross Section of the society especially women especially minorities, where you go to school makes a huge difference. At least to give you the first leg up in life. Absolutely, what you end up doing, your final successes depends on your tenacity. Id certainly depends on luck and determination as well, but where you go to school is very important to that First Step Towards success. Yet you agree dont you the kind of arms race it has had on High School Juniors and seniors that there are too much anxiety around the process . I think theres definitely anxiety around the process, but i think telling vulnerable High Schoolers that it doesnt matter which college you go into, you can be successful month no no matter what is being misleading, thats being in a world that we dont currently live in. Its very inspiring but i dont think at this moment were there yet. Does it matter who were talking about gender, heritage so on . Absolutely. You know, i mentor a lot of young just precollege age girls especially girls of color. And it makes a huge difference especially for children of immigrants, especially children who might be the first of their families to graduate high school. People with unusual names. I mean if we look at the way that the career process, the way people hire in todays world, a lot of the best opportunities still go to white men, and the opportunity to have an elite institution on your resume definitely makes a difference. Well, you went to two pretty wellknown brand name schools. Columbia university and the London School of economics. Had you gone to a good program at one of the better considered state schools, or taken a stateside business degree, instead of heading off overseas, how would you be different . And how would the resume that you presented to your early employers be different . I would think it would be very different. With a name like ruchika, i have heard hiring managers once ive made the cut, oh, thats an unusual name. And i think when i havent read frank answer book ill be honest here, but i have read his op ed, the examples he sites are wealthier white kids who did not end up going to very recognized colleges and still had a degree of success in light life. And i dont think, certainly i have the tenacity and i have the determination so i would like to believe id be able to make it this far, regardless. But i would be lying if i said that those credentials or my resume did not get me as far as ive come to date. Quickly before i say goodbye, did it force you to work harder and by forcing you to work harder, pull some things out of you or develop some things you didnt already have . Absolutely. Going to places like columbia showed me the new way that where journalism is going. I was able to speak to some amazing people in the field. And i really believe a lot of the opportunities be it the internships i had after that or the people i managed to interview, secure interviews with, the brand names i got on my resume after i would not have been able to do that without columbia and lsc on my resume. Writes for forbes. Com, she joins us from seattle, washington, good to have you with us. Thank you. Did you get a rejection letter from your dream school only to find joy and challenge at another college . Are you watching another student today go through their dream, share your story, follow me and get in touch raysuareznews. Thanks for joining inside story, thanks for watching, im ray suarez. Announcer this is al jazeera. Welcome to the news hour im in doha with our top stories. Desperate journey hundreds of migrants arrive off the coast of indonesia and malaysia. On the eve of a saudiproposed ceasefire fighting continues in yemen. Belgium suspends aid to burundi as it continues with reelection