Where was her husband that night . My attorney said you dont know the tidal wave thats coming towards you, do you . Seems like its always the husband, right . Isnt that what police say . This time, they werent so sure. Its a whodunit. I have three viable suspect. Three possible suspects . This victim also had a boyfriend, and he had a wife. Everyone starts getting questioned. Husband, boyfriend, jealous spouse. I said Something Like i hope she rots in hell. What did happen on that snowy night . See what you think. The most important clue of all may be the victims own voice. I knew there was a line to draw. Hello and welcome to dateline. Stephanie brewer and her husband appeared to have the perfect family. They had fallen in love in the Colorado Rockies where they settled to raise their three kids. Then, one frigid night dale said his wife walked out of the house and never returned. Investigators soon discovered the grieving husband was not the only man in her live. There were three potential suspects. Police needed to focus on stephanies life to figure out who may have caused her death. Here is Keith Morrison with secrets in the snow. It was cold the night it happened. So very cold. A night to be inside by a fireplace, tucked under a quilt. Not outside in the frigid dark, not way up here, 9,000 feet up in the colorado mountains, snow thick already that late november night. And with the windchill, 24 below. I dont know enough to know what happened. Still trying to figure it out. What in gods name was his wife doing, walking out into the brutal cold . More to the point, what happened to her . Middle class married mother of three, where did she go . Without a word to him or her friends. You cant imagine that this is happening to you and to your friend. She was just plain missing. Yes, she was. It was terrifying. Dreadful in the end. As events were about to prove, a shocking lesson on what can dwell hidden beneath a persons public skin. This is really a secret thing, as far as you know . A lot of it, sure. Everybody has secrets, of course. Stephanie rollerbruners secrets lived as she did. Silverthorne, colorado. Dale bruner was taking and selling photographs of visiting skiers. Person has to make a living and for dale, skiers were it. I love taking wildlife photos and scenics. Why dont you sell more of your work that way . I said buffalo dont carry credit cards, you know. Anyway, up there on the mountain he spot this had young woman seemed to be conducting some sort of Forestry Service survey. I skied up to her and said what are you doing, writing parking tickets . She looked up at me and smiled. Then she took off her big ski goggles. I was stunned. I was like, wow, shes beautiful. They moved in together right away. When they got married a few years later, they eloped, jetting off to fiji. It was so stephanie, said her friend. Yeah, they kind of just ran off and did it. They made their home in silverthorne, where dales photo business grew and grew. When things were really rolling i had several different operations in different states around the country, around 25 different photographers working. Stephanie got a job in government, Environmental Planning department. They raised their three young children. Awesome children. The best. How about a smile . And life for the bruner family was it was fantastic. We traveled. We vacationed. But it was in her spare moments and hours that stephanie was truly transformed, a ball room dancer. Dancing was probably to her what photography is to me. My guest star, bill. It was her passion, said her old friend, bill. He knows flamenco. Stephanie loved to dance. Dancing was her life. She was alive when she danced. Hardly surprising stephanie and jennifer were close, too. We started a ball room dancing at my studio. She had me doing back flips with but it was dance that led off the whole cascade of trouble. In the fall of 2010, an annual with but it was dance that led off the whole cascade of trouble. In the fall of 2010, an annual fundraiser here in silverthorne called dancing with the mountain stars, local worthies paired with ballroom pros. Did you go . Oh, yeah, absolutely. I went to three years of them. The last one, i did not go to the last one. Had a wedding to shoot. So, he missed the chance to watch stephanie teach those leadfooted businessmen the fox trot and tango and so on. Which means he also missed what happened that night. She coached a number of couples and in the process she met a man named ron. Ron holthouse, a local, married physical therapist. She started working with him and got to know him. She really did call it a true love moment. Did he feel the same thing about her . They really clicked. And stephanie was dancing on air. She didnt realize there could be love like that. The secret from her family, of course, but she told her friends she had found her soulmate. It was almost odd how she told a number of us that i just want you to know that im very happy. But joy and misery come in pairs sometimes. As thanksgiving approached, chaos took over what had been a wellordered life. It was a wednesday middle of october when things started piling up. Horrendous day for her. Because . She went to work that day and the county laid off 20 people that very day. Including stephanie. In fact, stephanies troubles and her secrets seemed to pile up like the snow. She was behaving a little bit strangely. Little unpredictable . Little bit, yeah. Not far from silverthorne, someone robbed a bank. A very rare thing around here. Dale was in bed, he said, when stephanie announced she was going out to clear her head and then didnt come back. A morning dale called the Silverthorne Police. I got a phone call from dale bruner and said i wanted to make a report that my wife was missing. It was a records clerk named Veronica Nicholas who took the call. He said i got the kids up, got them ready for school, got them on the bus and then i thought i should probably call you guys. Stephanies car was in the driveway, said dale. When he called her cell phone, it went to voice mail. Veronica called her best friend, jennifer. I panicked. This is something that happens to other people, not to you. But it had happened. As the Silverthorne Police check local hospitals, her friends scoured the neighborhood. It seemed unbelievable that stephanie would not check in. A day became two, then three, and some private secrets were about to become very public, indeed. Where was stephanie . Police had a lot of questions for her husband, dale. They also wanted to talk to that other man in her life, her boyfriend, ron. Coming up i just want to ask, straight up again not accusing you do you know where stephanie is right now . Looks like they picked the wrong getaway driver. Theyre going to be paying for this for a long time. 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Had she hurt herself or had someone else hurt her . It wasnt like stephanie rollerbruner to just disappear. Seemed mo of like a stranger might be involved or stephanie herself might have run off into despair and maybe hurt herself. Stephanies friends and family pored over those last few weeks, so full of change, secrecy, turmoil. Were there clues . Some knew about stephanies relationship with her new man and how upset she was about losing her job. Still, she seemed to be holding the trouble at bay. Six weeks before she disappeared, as dale recalled, she suggested a Little Family holiday. She said lets go to glennwood springs for the weekend, all classic, wonderful place. It was almost romantic, said dale, just like the old days. But when they got back, she gave him the news. She goes, i want a divorce. I said, you dont love me anymore . She said i met this other person. She even said its not that i dont love you, but i think i love i think i met my soulmate again. Just like that, dales world came crashing down. I called her brother. I called her sisters. I called her mom. I said do you know whats going on . Do you know whats happening . He talked to her sister, ramona. I remember feeling really annoyed. Why are you calling me to try to sway me to your side . By the time the phone call ended i remember thinking, yeah, what is steph doing . He begged stephanies friend, jennifer, do something. You have to talk to some sense in to her. Youve got to make her see that she needs to stay with me. You had no inkling this was coming . No, not until she told me she was in love with somebody. Helplessly in love, she told him. The other man dancing with the mountain stars i go back to the day that i asked steph if i should shoot that wedding or not and i didnt go to that event with her. I wasnt going to be dancing with her on a big, important night for her. It was a curiously oldfashioned affair, apparently. Stephanie told her friends her feelings were not so much physical as much as pure and emotional. She made it clear to dale that even though she still loved him, she had no choice but to follow these powerful feelings and make a life with that new man. I said if this is what you want, this is what you want. They would share the children, of course. Dale at the family house. Stephanie, in a rented condo. The weekend before she disappeared, he helped her move out. Why in heavens name did you do that . She asked me to help out. Isnt that what you do . I didnt fall out of love with her. I still loved her. Then, middle of the night, her very first night away, dale says he woke up to a commotion downstairs. It was stephanie. She crawled right back into bed with him. She had come home. Wow she said this was all a horrible mistake and she wanted to move back in. And i said, are you sure . She said dont worry. Everything is fine. But now, just two days later, things were not fine. Not at all. Stephanie was missing and dale was down at the police department, telling officers where he thought his wife might have gone. I thought she would go somewhere with her wifi and be on the computer. My other guess was maybe she went to rons house. I didnt know. The police interviewed the other man, of course. Ron holthouse. I just want to ask you straight up again not accusing you do you know where stephanie is right now . I absolutely have no idea. Okay. Ron admitted he and stephanie had a romantic relationship, but he denied they ever slept together. But we never ended up having sex. Then ron told them something very interesting. That he had ended the affair. It was the night she moved into the condo, he told them. He said to stephanie it was over. I said, im gonna move to florida with my wife. Were going to try to go back to naples and make this work. Do you have any reason to believe that anything bad may have happened to her . That would be my worst fear. 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They said dale, we need to tell you something. Im like, what . And i just went into convulsions. How did she get here . Was it suicide, accident, or murder . Theres a bridge just upstream from the place they found stephanies body. Dale told police she often liked to walk there. She could have been attacked on this bridge and shoved over. That was one of our early fears. Or that she just simply committed suicide, jumped in the water, hit her head and that was that . That was also another legitimate consideration. So, thus the puzzle . It is. Until four days after thanksgiving, when the autopsy revealed a curious detail. One that seemed to rule out suicide. There was no wounds at all to the souls of her feet. What did that mean . That certainly means that she did not walk to where we had found her without shoes. Just in case there was any lingering doubt, the autopsy also revealed she had taken a blow to the head and then she had been strangled but was still alive when she was thrown into the freezing water. The ultimate cause of death, hypothermia and drowning. We knew at that point she had been murdered. First murder in silverthorne in decades. But who would do such a thing . And why . It was just hours before stephanie took her walk in this virtually crimefree community that somebody robbed that nearby bank. So, did the robber later encounter stephanie and then assault and kill her . This is where a predator could have been hiding out. Theres any number of opportunities at that point. Still, it was so cold. Perhaps too cold for a lurking predator. This is one of those very few cases where its a whodunit, if you will, and weve got i had at least three viable suspects. Any one of whom had potential motive . Absolutely. There was Ron Holthouse, the other man, who had just suddenly dumped stephanie. There was cindy, rons wife, who, if she knew about the affair, could have wanted revenge. And then there was dale, dale bruner, the husband. And any one of them, thought the detective, was certainly physically capable of committing the crime. Her husband, six foot, 200pound, very athletic guy. Mr. Holthouse, big, strong guy. His wife was actually a very physically fit woman. So, she would be out gunned by one of them . I believe so. Yes, sir. They took ron in for questioning several times. Again and again, he insisted it wasnt him. I screwed up my marriage. I made a mess of my life. He admitted that in the last hours of stephanies life, he met her here in this Clothing Store parking lot, around dinner time, and it wasnt a happy meeting. I was actually trying to tell her that it was over. He earlier had sent her a breakup email, he said. She insisted on seeing him in person. She wasnt taking it well at all. And then she said asked me again one more time, like, we can make it work. I said no, i we cannot make this work. She was still interested in having a relationship with him. And didnt want to let him go . Correct. And im sure he was motivated to not let his wife find out about that. Which begged the question, where was Ron Holthouse later that monday evening when stephanie went for her walk . Youre saying to me you were at home. You never went out on monday night . Correct. The detectives called in rons wife, cindy. It would not be unheard of for a woman to be very upset that her to find that her husband has been seeing another woman and want to go to significant lengths by eliminating that temptation. Her alibi . She was home, sleeping, right next to ron. Okay. Did you know do you know for sure if ron was in the house . Did he leave at any time that night, on monday night . I didnt sit up looking at him all night. If he got up and left, would you have awoken . I think i would have, yeah. So their alibis were each other. Detectives kept prodding. Would you have done anything for him . Within reason. Would i lie for him . No. Because you know what . If he made his bed, hes got to lay in it. For almost a month, detectives went back and forth between ron and cindy and stephanies husband, dale. Who, by that time, had been advised by a friend better get a lawyer. So, i called. And my attorney said, you dont know the onslaught, the tidal wave thats coming toward you, do you . You have no idea. I said apparently not. Oh, yes. And what a tidal wave it was. Another bundle in the books. Got to hand it to you, jamie. Your knowledge of victorian architecture really paid off this time. Nah, just got lucky. So did the thompsons. That faulty wiring couldve cost them a lot more than the mudroom. Thankfully they bundled their motorcycle with their home and auto. Theyre protected 24 7. Mm. What do you say . One more game of backgammon . 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The postmaster general told lawmakers his agency is committed to delivering election mail safely, securely and on time but has no plans to restore equipment and overtime cuts made over the last two weeks at the Postal Service. And in california, wildfires are forcing evacuations and burning close to a million acres of land. Air quality is compounded by a heat wave now entering into the second week. Now back to dateline. Welcome to dateline. Im craig melvin. It had been a month since Stephanie Brewer was drowned and murdered near her house. There were three potential suspects, stephanies husband, dale, her boyfriend, ron and his wife cindy. Ugly secrets emerged that would put dale at the very top of the suspect list. Here again is Keith Morrison with secrets in the snow. Its horrible. I mean, its i i dont even know how to explain having a microscope go into your world. Its surreal. There are few secrets in a persons life that will escape the attention of a determined homicide detective. Everything comes out. Absolutely everything. Dale and stephanie, it turned out, had their share of secrets. The weird thing one chilly morning six weeks before stephanie was murdered as stephanie told her friend, jennifer. She heard spanking and she told me she counted at least eight spanks before she got up the stairs and down the hall to the kitchen. Well, my boy was acting out far beyond, you know, the norm. And i said, come on. That was a wednesday morning. Stephanie was furious about the spanking and stormed off to work and that very day was laid off from her county job. And then still upset with dale, stephanie went to see a judge and filed a restraining order against him, sought advice from her friend, bill. Honestly, i was a little bit surprised. I had never detected any major problems in their relationship. And this was distinctly odd. She asked the court to delay implementing the order until the following monday. Then she went home and, said dale, suggested that family holiday. We had a wonderful weekend at the hotel colorado, hot springs, swimming with the kids. But then back in town is when stephanie revealed, one, that she was in love with another man and, two, her restraining order was about to be served. She told me that the Sheriffs Department was going to come to the house and im going to have to leave. So he did. After which, said dale, they calmed down and ten days later went back to ask the judge to rescind his order. The court recorded the session. Im never going to spank again. This potentially could crush my entire world. And i am so sorry to you and i will make it up in any and every way i possibly can. She wanted to leave, but she felt like the restraining order was too much, that dale didnt deserve that and that maybe she had overreacted. So they talked about it like adults. And eventually they signed divorce papers and dale even helped stephanie move into her condo where, as you know, the very night she moved in her new love, ron, told her the affair was over. They werent going to be together, not then, not ever. He was staying with his wife. Two days later, she was dead. And ron and his wife, and dale, and were all under suspicion. They said i was a person of interest. I didnt think i had any worries. But agent sadar wasnt so sure. As his investigation continued, he became convinced that Ron Holthouse and his wife, cindy, had been telling him the truth. I feel awful. I really feel awful. But he kept encountering suspicious things like dale. Why had dale waited until morning to report his wife missing . Why, as dales friends and family scour the town looking for her, why did he not take part at all . It was this mounting series of things we started to become concerned about. It was dale, said sadar, who had motive and opportunity. For one thing, the place they found her body, dale could have certainly carried her that far. We were struck by how close it is to the house and how accessible it was, even under those snowy conditions. Yeah. And when dale was still talking before he lawyered up, his demeanor seemed odd to the detective. One of their meetings at a local restaurant was recorded. Well, what happened to her then . Well, thats what im talking to you about. Very probative. He wanted to know what we learned from the autopsy, where we were going with the investigation. When you said there were no other clothes on her. I have some concerns. Im being very open and honest with you. What the hell happened to her . Thats what im trying to find out. He was nervous but not outwardly sad. Detective sadar got a search warrant, a house cluttered at the time of the murder was now spotless. What did you find this time . Nothing. There was nothing to find. No signs of blood. No evidence of any struggle. Nor, in fact, was there any sign that stephanie had ever lived there. There wasnt a single photograph of her. Every trace of her had been scrubbed from the house. It also seemed suspicious, said the detective, that dale changed his story a bit. First time he called the police, he said they had an argument before she left to go out walking. Later he said there was no argument. Was there an argument of any kind . No, we never had an argument. There was no argument. It was just the facts were on the table. What were you talking about that she needed to clear her head . We were just talking about us. Within a few weeks of stephanies murder, the state ramped up the pressure on dale. Social services sent the bruner children to live with stephanies brother in california. Im in a fight with mike tyson with no gloves. And theyre taking my kids away, too. Dale wasnt completely alone, mind you. Some family stayed around, reported back to her sister, ramona, dale was truly grieving. We kept asking, what is he acting like . What is he saying . Unless hes some kind of actor that deserves some kind of oscar performance, this guy seems distraught. And stephanies friend, bill, moved in for two months to help out, console dale. He was having a very difficult time. Did you ever confront him or say, come on, what happened . Looked every one of us in the eye and said i had nothing to do with this. Im innocent. Can you talk at all about the investigators focusing only on you . I hope theyre focusing on someone else. Didnt look like it. Nine months after stephanies murder when it happened. I was coming back from one of my photo shoots and a little unmarked car with a light on it flashed and siren went. And they have guns drawn on me. Dale bruner was charged with Second Degree murder in the death of his wife. He pled not guilty, posted bond and was offered a plea deal by the d. A. s office. Why did you turn it down . Because innocent people dont plea. 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Two winters passed here in the Colorado Rockies between the untimely demise of stephanie rollerbruner and the prosecutors determination to pin it on dale. You cant believe t like really . Waiting for trial, he continued to live here, all alone now in the family house by the blue river, working with his attorney in the effort to clear his name. Robert burnhart is the attorney, a man not at all impressed, he told us, with the police investigation. Their position was, i think dale is the easy guy, you know, the worst pieces of investigating ive ever seen in my career. Dale and his attorney told us despite a show of interviewing other suspects, the police quite clearly had made up their minds the very day she disappeared. Police came to my house. I dont know the exact thing he said but he goes, did you kill your wife . I was stunned. The police didnt seem to want to believe what he told them about how happy he was that last evening, discussing new possibilities, a fresh start. Around 9 00 pm, their daughter came into their bedroom to ask for help with her homework. When she came into our bedroom we were laying on top of our bed, cuddling. And the fact that he didnt report her missing until morning. Why would he . He was aware of the fact that she was having an affair. Last thing i was going to do is make waves. Just do what you got to do. They made such a big deal about the fact that dale didnt join the search for stephanie, even though i called the police and they told me stay home in case she comes home. By the time dales trial began in the summer of 2012, he and his attorney were ready for evidence that they knew was only circumstantial. Questions like this. Even the way she was beaten on her head and strangled the way she was strangled. Thats a very intimate crime, a sort of crime that husbands commit when their wives are about to leave them. Or should i say boyfriends . Or boyfriends. Well, there you go. That was the point his lawyers wanted to make in court, that police and prosecutors had unfairly brushed off the possibility that stephanies new soulmate or his wife had anything to do with it. That would be Ron Holthouse. When everybody found out stephanie was missing, did any Police Officers come and visit you at work or at your home that day . No, they did not. And didnt rons wife, cindy, have a motive . And i said Something Like, i dont know where she is, but i hope she rots in hell. And im very sorry i said that. Of course, dale and his attorney knew the prosecution would make a big deal about the restraining order stephanie took out after dale spanked her son. That sprang from the chaos in her life. I believe she built a fake little world where i was the bad guy. Was stephanie ever worried dale might get violent . Hardly said the defense. Why else would she ask the judge to delay the order until after their Little Family holiday . The judge said he had never seen someone have a restraining order but then have someone say dont enact it yet, not until next week. Why would she go away on a yoga retreat and decline this friends offer to babysit . Can i take care of the kids . She said no, theyre fine with dale. Thats because she knew that dale wasnt a threat to her. He wasnt a threat to those children. Remember how the detective found the house unusually spotless two weeks after the murder . It was, turned out, family and friends who cleaned up. Apparently because dale was paralyzed by grief. Dale walks into his walkin closet and half of the stuff is stephanies. He comes out and hes just crying. Hes like, ive got to get this stuff out of here. Clearly a rush to judgment, sloppy investigation, said the defense. By detectives who bought the holthouses alibi too easily, who failed to consider that the murder might have been committed by whoever robbed the nearby bank just before stephanie disappeared. Attorney burnhart confronted agent sadar. You had no direct evidence of mr. Bruner assaulting his wife . Correct, no direct evidence of mr. Bruner murdering her. Of course, had dale taken the stand, he would have had to have answered to some stubbornly uncomfortable facts and this question that hung over the defense table like a cloud. You loved your wife. You loved her a lot. But in that moment of extreme rage when she was leaving you, you killed her. Strangled her and then threw her body in the river. Thats so not true. The theme of the prosecution was that you were an abuser and that it was its beyond so not true. Its just not true. They painted quite a picture, though. Oh, yes. They certainly did. With the help of a woman whose message, in a way, came back from the grave. Oikos triple zero gives 26 Saquon Barkley protein to be strong. drum roll good job protein. I eat the protein that comes in this yogurt. 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What dale bruner would have to live with would depend on the outcome of his trial, of course, and whether or not prosecutor could sway the jury without the benefit of physical evidence that dale killed the love of his life in a fit of blind rage. Think dale bruner strangles her, believes she is dead, takes her to the river, dumps her in the river. So what did happen on the night of the murder . The prosecutor called a child to start the story, dale and stephanies eldest daughter who walked into her parents bedroom at 9 00 p. M. At 10 years old she could say what happened with specifics. Out of the view of the media, she told the court she heard her parents arguing, not cuddling, as dale claimed. After which, remember, dale claimed stephanie went for a walk to clear her head. At temperatures well below freezing . Youve got to be kidding, said the prosecutor. His wife goes for a walk and he wouldnt call anybody until eight or nine hours later, ten hours later . That just doesnt make any sense. Which, by itself, didnt mean dale was guilty. This is where some of those secrets began to spill out. The terrifying secrets of a fatally troubled marriage. Like the one stephanie told this friend after that spanking incident when she applied for a restraining order. Did she express fear to you at the time . Yes, she did. She looked at me and said he just sees red. He gets so mad that he goes into a red zone and he doesnt even know what he does. And so, said the friend she was afraid to get a restraining order against dale because he had already threatened to harm or kill her. That threat from dale was years earlier, but stephanie had never forgotten how terrified she was. She told the story to her friend, jennifer, just before the murder. He strong armed her into a corner, choking her, threatening to hit her. He stopped short of hitting her, but he did. There was another time he threw her on the bed and put his neon her pregnant belly. How often would this happen . You know, there may be three of those two or three, i dont know, of those incidents that she talked about. Then there was leah aiken, lifelong friend of dale. Told the court his reaction of when she said she was in love with another man. He just wanted her dead, you know. Maybe she would have a heart attack or get hit by a car. I told him to stop saying that. Could he be truly violent . Consider this woman, an exgirlfriend from dales past, woman named julie, who told the jury and us the strange story of what happened one night when she lived with dale 20 years earlier. He hadnt come home for dinner one night and said he would be home. And you called him on it . He came home. We argued about it. And he became very angry. Yelling at me. He pushed me down on to the floor and put his hands around my neck and said, if you ever say or do that again, ill kill you. He had a look on his face that i had never seen or recognized before. It was the most scared i had ever been in my life. Even though that was a long time ago, said the prosecutor, it told a terrible tale which, sadly, is as old as time. Dale, he said, was a man sometimes overcome by rage and his m. O. Was to go for the throat. She was strangled so hard and with such force that it broke a bone in her neck. Then the prosecutor introduced his bombshell. Stephanie herself, on tape. Six week before her murder, stephanie begged a judge for that restraining order. And now, in court, her recorded plea was a voice from the grave. He has threatened my life. Years ago but, you know, with a hand on my throat didnt squeeze it. Screaming in my face, i will kill you if you leave. Ive never forgotten. Her sister was sitting in the courtroom, listening, and was overcome. And that was when we lost it. Because it was feelings of oh, my god. And shes crying. It was as if stephanie was testifying in her own murder trial. I would so love to talk to him about it. And i just think that would go really bad. So im here, asking for help. And im going to end up getting a divorce because theres no way i can go back. Only she did. Finally, this Domestic Violence expert weighed in. When a victim is attempting to leave a relationship or has left a relationship, it is by far the most dangerous time for a victim. But what was the trigger that, according to the prosecution, set dale off . The answer, he said, may lie in an unfinished email stephanie was writing to the other man, ron, just before she was murdered. And though dale denied he knew what she was doing i honestly didnt know. I had no idea. The prosecutor said dale must have seen her writing it, begging ron for another meeting because she couldnt accept the idea that her new love was leaving her. I think dale bruner got angry at that and hit her with something. Then he strangles her, believes that she is dead. Shes probably unconscious at that point. But she is not dead. Takes her to the river and dumps her in the river. The jury stayed out four hours. The court has reviewed the verdict. It was early, which is always worrying. Dale bruner stood, awaited his fate. Youre trying to maintain and not just melt under the so, you know, you prepare yourself to just breathe. Just breathe. And then there it was. We, the jury, find the defendant, dale bruner, guilty of murder in the Second Degree. He was also convicted of two counts of Sexual Assault and was later sentenced to 112 years in prison. In 2018, his sentence was reduced to 48 years. It is a perfect storm. Im going down with the ship. Stephanies friend jennifer was driving when the verdict came in. I was parked on the side of the road crying like a baby. And like others who knew stephanie, she wishes now shed taken her friends secrets more seriously. I beat myself up over it every day about how i should have done this or should have done that. An almost good marriage with one deadly flaw. A lot of stephanies Close Friends and family didnt know what was going on. I knew of a couple of events over the years. And lets say it was only two. It only took three and shes dead. And so, say her friends, take some advice. Heed the warning. Dont hide the secret. Thats why im talking about it now, and hopefully just one woman would have the courage to stand up and say, im being abused. Im living in fear. Im living with secrets and i need to stand up and be bold. Thats all for now. Im craig melvin. Thank you for watching. First up on msnbc, new today, a vote expected on capitol hill in a battle over Postal Service changes. The latest on what to expect and whether mailin ballots could be impacted. The new ticket talks. Joe biden and Kamala Harris in their first interview. They tackle the covid19 issue and insults hurled by donald trump. And new sobering forecasts. The latest projection on the coronavirus. Where will the u. S. Be by december, and why the new change . New response. 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