Its like, i didnt like that. Then the next day its like, ooh, let me try it again. Oh, let me try it again. And then i didnt really blossom until i was about 30. But ive been very aware since, um. 227, actually, and before that how fabulous they are. But up until then, i thought it was just my face. So yeah. laughter i, as you probably know, i had large large large breasts. Ive known you a long time. We go way back. You had some big gazoombas. I did. And i wore them well. In hairspray, my bra size, it was a 44dd. But that was and the marks you used to get. I had the ridges, i had back pain. It was horrible. So it wasnt something that i embraced. I didnt feel sexually attractive because of my breast size. Im not saying you were as big as i was, but its something that youve always embraced. Right. And it worked for you. Its like they work now, but you gotta be able to back it up. You know what i mean . laughter no, i dont know what you mean. Uh, well, you know, i try to empower young women. Specifically ages 16 to 54, cause it could take 50 years before you realize how wonderful you are, trust me. What im saying is if youre gonna portray this sexual thing and this sexual angle, then dont tease a guy, dont tease whoever it is that youre trying to seduce. Mmhmm. And i learned that after about three times, you know . In other words, so if youre gonna be that sexual creature, like a la marilyn monroe, theres a bad side to it too, because youll be called names. Youll be teased. Youll be objectified. And you can be a gorgeous woman with a great but if youre in high school looking like that, you stand out. If youre gonna be that kinda woman, you gotta be able to back that up. Dont be afraid of it. But once you get of age and you can use it like Pamela Anderson or Something Like that, then feel free. If you can handle it. Everybody cant handle being a sex symbol. You know what i mean . Yeah, i giggles you obviously handle it well. You are now single, right . You were married for a long time. Oh, yeah. And you live with your ex. You can ask me about my dating life. A mess i wanna ask about heres your ex. Yeah, elgin charles. Oh, my gosh, hes amazing. Did the show Beverly Hills fabulous. Yes. This is his hair. Thats his hair. Its fabulous. How does it work . You all live together, you raise your son together. Hes 19. Frank. How do you manage to have a dating life and still live with your ex . I have to sneak off to the notell motel. laughter where you rent by the hour. Actually, i dont bring any men home, because i think thats disrespectful. And i dont him bringing nobody in my house. But hes got a girlfriend. Shes gorgeous. So it works out. Ive had a great life, so its not over. But if he gets his own apartment, i wouldnt be mad. You know what i mean . But i want him close. I dont want him too far away cause i love him to death. I cant be bringing too many men up around him. cause its just too much work. So no boyfriend right now . I didnt say that. laughter whats your perfect man . Describe him. Uh, have a job. all laughing . Has nice clothing, nice shoes, specifically. cause men look here, but women, we look at the face, then we look at your shoes. If your shoes are raggedy that means you aint got no job. Okay. And you aint got no car. Right . Does he need to be a career man . Do you like someone in the business . Yes. No, not in the business. No . No. No. But a career man. And patient with me, cause im crazy and very selfabsorbed. Im an actress. And my career youre a good time. I can tell. Youre a good time. Yeah, im a good time, girl, but then i want you to leave. laughter the doctors laughing. Yeah. When he came, i was like, mmm, he got on a nice suit and a nice i said, mmm mmm, he got some money. Wait, lets talk about your new show the first family. Whats your character like . Yes, im having fun. Byron allen produced it. And were on, um, saturdays at 5 00 here in l. A. And 8 00 in the other time zones in america. And its myself, john witherspoon, who i love, i adore. Christopher duncan from jamie foxx. Kellita smith from bernie mac. Gladys knight and guess, marla gibbs from 227. ricki gasps can you believe it . Oh, my goodness. And the four darling little kids. Thats amazing. And whats your character . Im the sisterinlaw to the president , and i hate him, of course. laughs and you use your boobs to work for you . Everything i got. Everything you got. Well, you are awesome. Will you stay around for a little bit . Okay. All right. Up next, it lifts, separates and brings your best assets forward, but finding the perfect bra after radical weight loss can be a challenge. Well find out why when we come back. My thing more so is now when you lose a lot of weight, you get a lot of skin. So i mostly have a lot of skin now that i cant really get good cleavage with. Dr. Griffin, what can someone like rayo do to get rid of the extra skin . Did you see a difference in the way men treated you . The way society treated you . I got a lot of dates. laughter donuts . Youre cute. [ door closes ] [ female announcer ] new special k proteicereal helps keep you fuller longer. Willpower. What will you gain when you lose . How ya doin . Mmm. [ birds chirping ] okay bye bye [ female announcer ] help satisfy your hunger longer with special k protein bars and shakes. Willpower. What will you gain when you lose . Creates the perfect smoky eye protein bars and shakes. Loreal voluminous smoldering liner super intense pigments smoldering it doesnt get more smokin than this bewitching voluminous smoldering liner from loreal paris [ male announcer ] your kids make great things. So give them a tasty, wholesome snack that has eight grams of whole grain. Ands now made with real strawberries and bananas. Honey maid teddy graha. Two new flavors now made with real fruit. Behind the silver of philadelphia cream cheese. It always begins with fresh local milk blended with real, wholesome cream. Going fresh from the farm, to our fridge, in just six days. Because we believe in fresh taste. Thats the way we set the standard for intensely rich, luscious flavor. So our story of fresh taste always ends, deliciously. When it comes to taste, philadelphia sets the standard. Ive actually been measured and im a 30 34c. 34d. I wear a 34c. 32e. My breasts arent as perky as they used to be. I wouldnt mind pumping them up. Gravity has definitely taken place in my breasts, so theyre like droopy. My breasts are too big. Theyre small, but theyre perky. Sittin pretty. laughs perfect . Oh, wow. Okay, were back with jackee. And were talking about, what . Breasts all right, our next guest rayo lost more than 70 pounds in 16 months. But as she found out, diet and exercise does not solve everything. Take a look. My breasts stress me out. My breasts started growing when i was about 11 years old. And then the weight started coming on when i was 13. They grew extremely large to the point of where i couldnt even see my feet. Then gaining all this weight into college with breasts so big that people are like, ohh. People would constantly make comments too, which was also very embarrassing. So now i have lost 70 pounds, which is amazing. And my breasts are half the size. And now the skin just hangs. Im a young woman, but i feel like when i look at my breasts, i think i look like my grandma. Theres always some reminder of what it used to be. I wont even look at myself. I take showers in the dark and i just avoid looking at myself naked. It just. Makes me feel sick. crying oh, my god, im sorry. sniffles im dreading the day that i meet a man that i fall in love with and then hes gonna run. Thats what im afraid of, yeah. That really makes me sad. Please welcome rayo. applause first off, congratulations. Thank you so much. I mean, losing all that weight how did you do it . We all wanna know. Lots of exercise, water. I got off sugar and flour and dairy. So i do just protein, vegetables and things that you can grow. So it wasnt like a magic pill or anything . Nope. Strictly hard work and dedication. I feel amazing. Definitely. I feel applause thank you. What was your bra size at your heaviest . I never knew my bra size. Again, when i was little, i had like a ccup around like the age of 11 or so. And then once i had hit my highest weight, i just never wanted to go to bra shops and find out. My thing more so is now when you lose a lot of weight, you get a lot of skin. So i mostly have a lot of skin now that i i cant really get good cleavage with. I have to tuck it in. And of course, without a bra, its not very goodlooking. Well, joining us the handsome gentleman that you pointed out, jackee. Oh, he fine you like his shoes, you like his shoes. I like his whole suit. Right. His shoes. Dr. Anthony griffin is a Beverly Hills cosmetic surgeon and he is familiar with rayos case. Okay, dr. Griffin, what can someone like rayo do to get rid of the extra skin . Unfortunately, the only way to get rid of the extra skin is actually to tailor it and do a breast lift. Some patients, if youre happy with your size, you can actually do a breast lift plus an implant. But youre not necessarily committed to an implant. In rayos case, do you think that she needs implants . No, i dont think so. Particularly women who usually theyre in the wrong size bra anyway, and most women whove had big breasts dont really wanna continue that largeness. They just want something thats proportionate to their body. I think thats the key. So what do you think youre gonna do . Do you think youll have that surgery . Im gonna get the surgery. Definitely. I would feel a lot better. You feel like you lose all this weight, you like Everything Else, but then other things just dont go back. Well, youre gorgeous no matter what. Thank you so much. Whether you have it or not. Congratulations. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you. Our next guest says that being small, curvy and wellendowed can be a backbreaker, especially if youre wearing the wrong bra. In fact, she was so frustrated by what was available, that she started her own business. So we sent rayo to her store for a fitting. Take a look. My name is jenette goldstein. Im the proprietress at jenette bras. And our slogan is the alphabet starts at d. We are a fullcup bra store. I think a majority of women are wearing the wrong bra size. So what size have you been wearing . This bra is a 34dd. Im gonna get you a 32g. This is definitely a relief to my back. It feels great. Takes the weight off your shoulders because the support is coming right from here. Some of the common problems of a poorlyfitted bra is the double boob. Your cup runneth over. Another one is too much cleavage. Good bras are engineered like suspension bridges. The bra should be snug. This bra is an example of a bra that is tacking correctly. The center gorge right up against her breastbone, the wire is all the way around the breast. My issue is i have a lot of loose skin. Right. I lost 70 pounds. You got this bra at a drug store. Yes. Right. Okay. The majority of women have uneven breasts. Looks for bras that are cut and sewn. Which means they are built out of three different parts of material, so that the bra can expand, like a stretch lace, or it can contract subtlety to make up for the difference. This is the best fit ive ever had. Everything stays in. All the loose skin, you cant tell. Here we have a sheer panel. So its like vaseline on the lens. Right. Good bras are expensive. You should not take your ferrari to a cheap mechanic, and you should not put your gorgeous rack in a cheap bra. applause if that isnt words to live by. Oh, my goodness. Please welcome the owner of jenette bras, jenette goldstein. Hi, jenette. Hi thats awesome, and im making an appointment. Im coming to you. All right. What inspired you to start this business . What inspired me was seeing a photo of myself at my sons graduation. And i thought i was looking great. And i looked both matronly and vulgar at the same time. chuckles what was the problem . Well, i was well, i was wearing a bra that the band was too big, the cup was way too small and so you just kinda go down and out. So i went to find i thought, well, maybe im like a 38dd or something . And it turns out im a 32g. pats couch okay, so yeah. So whats the biggest mistake that we make . The support. The support comes from the band. Okay. Not the straps. The band has got to be snug. If its not snug, you are going down. All right, well, im fascinated with all things breasts. Coming up next, breast implants in Orange County are about as common as sunshine in california. But when real housewives of Orange County star tamra barney removed her implants, she says that she embraced her selfworth. Well talk with her right after this break. Stay with us. I went through a really bad divorce, and i really didnt feel like. I knew who i was. And i wanted to take my life back. Guys, how can you tell if a woman has implants . First of all, fake breasts, they just. laughter you can push the person, and the breasts are still right there. They dont move. Welcome back. We are talking about breasts today with the sassy miss jackee. cheers, applause weve watched real housewives of Orange County star tamra barney survived a bitter divorce, tear up during a Marriage Proposal and bare her claws during a catfight. And shes certainly not shy about revealing her feelings on camera. Take a look. shouting this is how you hail a cab, girl tamra and eddie are finally ready cheers beautiful, guys. camera clicks stop asking me when were gonna get married. I dont need the pressure. If you dont want to get married, why did you ask . Hello. Lauri is back in the mix oh my god. Dont trust her. Dont let her back in. Why does she hate me so much . I dont even know what i did to her. Tamra, butt out. Butt out . You get out done well, please welcome one of the stars of bravos the real housewives of Orange County, tamra barney cheers, applause welcome. Hi. Hi great to have you here. Thank you for being here and talking so candidly about breasts and all things about em. laughter okay, so you i know got breast implants very very young. I did. I got them. Why . Out of insecurity. I was 20 years old. I had had my first child at 18, and after breastfeeding for a year, as we know, they droop. So i thought, oh, ill just get em made bigger. And thats when breast implants really started to become popular. And i went big 34dd. So did you see a difference in the way men treated you . The way society treated you . Well, i got a lot of dates. Yeah. Yeah, definitely. And i think thats where i am right now, thats why i had them removed, because for so many years it was like, oh, hi and you couldnt get a shirt to fit you and definitely not a buttonup shirt. And it was always, no matter what i wore, i felt they were right there. It was like a blessing and a curse. In your 20s, it was fun. Im not gonna lie it was fun to have. chuckling . To be in the bikini and get the attention. It was exactly what i wanted, im sure, at the time. As i got older, they became a bother to me. They were heavy. And when you get breast implants, a lot of times you dont just have one surgery. You end up with three surgeries. What do you mean . Well, within time i had mine for 20 years. So complications is that true, doctor . Yeah. And it wasnt necessarily complications for me, cause i never had any complications, whatsoever. But i had four children. So in between that, after baby 2, i decided to have them done again. So got em done, and then they were too big, so then i went back and had a reduction done and a smaller implant put in. And you actually see that on season four. Ooh, child. And i know youre and youre gorgeous. I dont understand, ricki. Look at her, shes gorgeous. I dont get it. Thats sweet. And youve since had them removed. Your ex was a big fan of the implants and you feel like it was liberating to have them removed. Yes. I went through a really bad divorce and i really didnt feel like i knew who i was. I kind of lost my identity with my husband and i wanted to take my life back. And one of the things i was like, im getting rid of these and im getting rid of them now. It was a scary thing, because i had them for 20 years. And i didnt know what i was left with gonna be left with. Even right before i went in, i asked the doctor, so, should we put a little implant in . I got really scared and he said, no. No. Just stick to your plan. This is what you wanted. You want them gone. And it was the best thing i ever did in my life. Wow. Wow. What was that like when you went home . It was just so freeing to know that i didnt have these implants and i think the beauty about being in your 40s you dont really care. I mean, your bikini days are really kinda gone and i dont you dont care as much. Something tells me you can still rock a bikini. laughter but it was just i felt better, i looked better. My shoulders were always like this, and i still have a problem with pushing my shoulders back because i was so used to all this weight. Mmhmm. So it was just clothes fit me better on camera, especially, i felt i looked so heavy all the time. Then i got them out and it i just love em. I wish i wouldve done it i wish i wouldve known to just never get implants. I had enough of my own breast tissue that i couldve gotten a lift. Really . Okay. Yeah. Well, tell us about the new season of the real housewives of Orange County. Oh dear. Theres definitely a lot of drama. Theres always a lot of drama. Were gonna get married. We havent gotten married yet. And you see me like, well, when we getting married . When are we getting married . And we didnt get married on the show. Okay. So we did a lot of wedding preparation. Okay. On the show, but we dont actually get married. Were getting married this summer. Okay. But youre still engaged. Yes, were engaged but were opening up a business together, so we just opened up my Fitness Studio and it took so much time to that we didnt have time to plan a wedding, film a tv show and Everything Else we do. Okay. So this summer were getting married. All right, well, coming up next, our man panel weighs in and tells us why they become powerless in the presence of beautiful breasts. Its a conversation you dont want to miss. Stay tuned. applause cheers i dont think youre gonna find it in a harvard med book, but talking longer than 12 seconds to a lady, your eyes just immediately go down. Its like blinking. Like right now, i just saw your breasts twice. laughter even and im wearing a turtleneck. We have to make a conscious effort not to look down. Its so true. When a woman walks in the room with a big chest, a man will stare right at it. When a woman with large breasts walks into a room, i look at them. When a largebreasted woman walks in the room. I look. When a woman walks by with big boobs, i cant help but stare. Its really hard to look into their eyes when theres so much to distract you. I look straight at her face. I dont look at her breasts. laughs is your nose growing . Yes. cause my wife will probably be watching this. laughter the truth comes out. We have been talking about breasts with jackee, one of the stars of c. W. s the first family, and tamra barney from the real housewives of Orange County. Now its time to get the male perspective. Please welcome comedian and saturday night live alum, finesse mitchell. Hi. Next, he runs the v. I. P. Room at the las vegas palms and is a series regular on mtvs the pauly d project. Please welcome jroc. And he is the drivetime d. J. For l. A. s hit alternative radio station, kroq. Please welcome stryker. Thank you guys for being here. Okay, so, finesse, why do men love talking about boobs . Because theyre soft. laughter . Nice. And they stick out. Not always. Well, the ones ive seen stick out. So is it safe to say you are a boob man . Yeah, i love boobs. I love all sizes, though, so you love all sizes . All sizes. I love the real real big ones and i love the ittybitties that you can just play with with your fingers. You know what im saying . What about you, jroc . What do you prefer . It depends on the woman, you know . I think boobs in general guys just its some kind of weird i love how you talk with your hands when yeah, im italian, so it just kinda happens. But for some reason we try to look in the eyes and not look down, but its its physically impossible. I dont think youre gonna find it in a harvard med book, but talking longer than 12 seconds to a lady, your eyes just immediately go down. Its like blinking. You can like right now, i just saw your breasts twice talking to you. laughter even and im wearing a turtleneck. We have to make a conscious effort not to look down. Its so true. Okay, all right. Wellendowed women often complain that men rarely talk to their faces. To put that theory to the test, were gonna play a game we call. Are you ready . Yes. Were gonna take a look at cleavage 1. I cannot believe were doing this. All right. Guys, do these boobs ring a bell . Salma hayek . Kim kardashian. bell dings it belongs to, yes, kim kardashian. Honey, wow. I know my boobs. Come on, lets take a look at cleavage 2 ricki lake no no. Pam anderson . Coco. Coco. bell dings thats a nice guess. Pamela anderson. Lets see who cleavage 2 belongs to. All right go, girl coco. Who said coco . Who said coco . Really . The ladies are kicking your butts. I was right there with coco. We were too busy staring at the boobs to care. I gotta look at it for ladies, let them catch up. Give them a second to put their tongue back in their mouth. Lets look at cleavage 3. Cleavage 3 . Ricki lake . laughter is that. Hmm. Oh, i know who that is. That is. Someone that would never date me . Nicki minaj. No. No . No, cause shes black. Those are white breasts. No nicki minaj is nicki those are not black breasts. Those are white breasts. That turns out to be nicki minaj, she gonna kick your butt. Wait. Jackee, jackee. You seem to really know your stuff. What makes you think its nicki minaj . cause we, like, best buds. You are . Are you . All right, lets take a look. Who does that cleavage belong to . bell dings dang dang thats my dog three for three oh my gosh. Thats my baby. Wow. Wow wow wow. All right. Thats crazy. I feel like you cant play anymore, jackee. Okay, im through. Im through. You have an unfair advantage. But whats crazy about that, you said, how did she know . cause were best buds. And im like, thats how you know those are her breasts . Theyre best buds. Okay, lets take a look we have more for you. Dont worry. Dont worry, honey. Weve got another one for you. Cleavage 4. Dont dont jump in, jackee. Man. You just hold it. Do you recognize that one . Yeah oh, im lost. Come on, stryker. Help us out. I am i dont i cant out of the game. This is jackee its jackee wait wait and who does it belong to . Who does it belong too . Who is it . laughter bell dings yelling mmm. Wow. Jroc, is that your wallet . Ricki, darling. Wow, thank you for playing. I feel like im going to hell but thank you so much for playing. Stay with us, guys. Coming up next, can these guys tell breast implants from the real thing . What do you think . Well, something tells me jackee will be able to do it. Well be right back. applause i prefer natural. Thats my vote. You prefer natural . Yes. All right, could you tell the difference between fake and natural . Were gonna put you to the test right now. Were gonna show you a photo and you tell us photos. Oh, ricki. I thought we was touching em. laughter served on a toasted pretzel roll, our new bacon avocado chicken sandwich comes with fries and your choice of soup or salad. Its just one of chilis delicious lunch break combos. More life happens here. [ male announcer ] your kids make great things. So give them a tasty, wholesome snack that has eight grams of whole grain. Ands now made with real strawberries and bananas. Honey maid teddy graha. Two new flavors now made with real fruit. Now with blue fig Orange Blossom scent. When freshness meets care, your skin will sing. Bright, rich. New blue fig Orange Blossom. Its fresh at its best. Closed captioning for the ricki lake show is sponsored in part by. Yer always after me lucky charms whoa. I forgot how good these taste [ lucky ] theyre magically delicious go to. And be a part of the conversation. I think natural breasts are better than fake breasts. But fake breasts may look better. I dont really like fake breasts. I hate fake breasts. Theyre cold and hard and its really scary. screaming no fakes. No fakes. No. I dont have a problem with them. But i prefer natural. I also think fake ones are really pretty. I know. I know. He loves them. Like im totally into it. Hes so for it. If you need a boob job, get it. All the time. Yes. Welcome back. overlapping chatter we have been talking about the amazing power of breastices. Guys, okay, how can you tell if a woman has implants . First of all, ricki, you know those last two guys dont look at breasts at all. Who are you trying to fool with them . I like them. I look at them all the time. No you dont. But heres everything they said, i actually agree with. You do . Everything the two. Gay men are saying. They know their stuff. But how can you tell if theyre real or fake . Basically by how they move and how they hang. Thats my opinion. And how they feel. And how they dont move. How they feel. Right. Yeah. If theyre lying on their back and its just going straight up fake breasts, they just laughing you can push the person, and the breasts still right there. They dont move. So okay, but can really really good implants, like really a good job can look so real. Definitely. Yeah. Absolutely. You cant tell the difference. I lived in miami for like six years. So the technology down there is so advanced. Oh yeah. Because you can no longer tell. Like butt implants and breast implants, you just like those are those are fake . But i prefer natural. Thats my vote. You prefer natural . Yes. All right, could you tell the difference between fake and natural . Thats what were gonna put you to the test right now. Were gonna put your knowledge to the test with a game we call. Were gonna show you a photo, and you tell us oh, a photo . Oh, ricki. I thought we was touching em. laughter are you ready . Hold onto your chair. Take a look at cleavage number one. Guys, what do you think . Those are fake. Fake. The shape is too perfect on those. Okay, guys, you say fake . I say fake based on the perfect round unbelievable shape. Okay. Real. Very real. Real . Yes. Naturally fake. Naturally fake . Theyre real. Okay, jackee, since youre so good, you say theyre real. You say theyre real. Whose are they . Oh. Ooh. Well see now, the dress, thats bad because thats pam. Thats pam. To me its because of the way the dress is pushing up on the boobs that makes them look natural to me cause i know that trick. Theyre really not as big as they look. It looks like pam anderson. Lets see if shes right. Cleavage number one. Yeah. dinging pam anderson. Its when she was smaller. She was smaller. Because shes bigger than that. Youre freaking me out. Youre like a psychic on my show, jackee. She knows she knows. We know boobs. Who needs James Van Praagh when i have jackee . laughing oh my gosh. Okay. Thats how i got my third husband. With these, child. Cleavage number two. Moving right along. Okay. Those are real. Those are wait a minute. What makes you say theyre real . Because that left one is tired. Its just laughing see thats what we want. I think thats real and possibly Christina Hendricks, maybe . Real Christina Hendricks . Wow. Lets see if youre right. Whos number two . Oh my goodness all right. Moving right along. Number three. Are you ready . Mm. Who cares . Those are fake. Thats tough. Those are fake. If the zipper was down a few inches. Yeah. Its tough to tell. Its really tough to tell. Fake. Fake . You say fake. Jackee, fake . We dont like the picture. I hate them. I think theyre fake, but i think she has a lot of her own breast tissue. Lets take a look and see who it is. Thats tamra. Aah ooh applause, laughing breathe. laughing i was right. I was right. They were fake, but i still had a lot of my own breast tissue. You know what you said when you saw them, right . I said ew. She said ew. laughing were talking about that. Well, we love you in the flesh. We love you here. That was awesome. How about a hand for our panel . Thank you for playing. So impressive. Wow. Wow. Coming up next, the hollywood tips and tricks stylists use to enhance alist cleavage. And later well find out if members of our audience are wearing the right bra size. Dont go away. Well be back. So another big hollywood trick, everyone does this. I am a fan of these, actually. Yeah, i have those in my arsenal. Is it cold in your house . Yeah. Fragile, breaking, falling hair . Not for me. Loreal triple resist haircare with arginine. Nourishes from the root up. Reinforces the strand. Strengthens hair from root to core to tip. Hair fall due to breakage reduced by 64 . Triple resist from loreals most advanced haircare. It fills you with energy. And it gives you what you are looking for to live a more natural life. In a convenient two bar pack. This is nature valley. Nature at its most delicious. Go to. And be a part of the conversation. Did nana ever give you cheerios when you were a little kid . Yeah, she did. Were cheerios the same back then . Cheerios has pretty much been the same forever. So. When we have cheerios, its kind of like we are having breakfast with nana. Yeah. Yeah. Youre so smart. We have been talking about breasts with jackee, tamra barney, finess mitchell, jroc and stryker. Also joining me is the woman that New York Daily News has hailed the brilliant bra guru. Shes a fashion journalist, a style expert, and the other of. Thank goodness shes here. Please welcome jene luciani. cheering its great to have you. Why are women wearing the wrongsize bra . Well, i think a lot of women just really arent getting educated. A lot of it also is that our bodies change often as we age, as we have children, gain or lose weight. And we sort of dont want to face that. So its like kind of looking yourself squarely in the mirror and saying things are changing. So a lot of women and they dont have time and money. And its no fun bra shopping. Ive had some bad experiences. Yes. I mean, unfortunately thats the way it is for a lot of women. And so thats part of the reason why i wanted to write the bra book. I have a really personal a lot of personal struggles with my own breasts throughout the years. And just having the platform to be able to help other women and share with other women. And so the experience isnt horrible. Tell us what you have today. Okay, so were talking about hollywood secrets. And kind of like the things that every woman needs that they might not know they have. So something that every woman needs in her bra wardrobe is a convertible bra. And whats great about this is we all love fashion. We have lots of fun tops that we want to wear. The trickiest tops. But we dont want to have a different bra to go under everything. So the great thing about this is you can transform it different ways. Oh, i see. So the straps exactly. So here we have it like an x back. You can make it a halter. You can wear it strapless. And its like one bra that you need. Thats awesome. All right, cool. Of course. Another big hollywood trick, everyone does this. Theyre commonly known as chicken cutlets. Although you dont want to eat them. Not these, okay . I am hungry. Exactly. These little silicone puppies are great to have. And they really just boost you. They give you a lift and a boost where you need it. So im gonna show you how to whenever youre done feeling it, ricki. Oh, sorry. Whenever youre done with that. Lets ask if it feels real. Yes, it does. So basically, youre just going to insert it into the cup like so. And you want it underneath . Kind of sort of underneath. But i mean, every woman has different breasts. Like no two boobs are alike. So some women have more top fullness, bottom fullness, so kind of play with it a little bit so it looks right in the mirror. But thats sort like the general rule of thumb. Okay. There you go. Cleavage. You want to feel it . Yup. Bam all right. Throwing chicken cutlets everywhere. All right. Ooh i im a fan of these actually. Yeah, i have those in my arsenal. Is it cold in your house . Yeah. Whether its cold, or you just tend to have a little bit of nipplage sometimes, which a lot of women do. Or youre wearing a thin shirt, or even a thin bra. These little breast petals, these are made of silicone, but you can get them so theyre almost like bandaids. Theres different ones that you can try and play with. But they just sort of go here like so. They cover your headlights. And cover the areola. Right. And the nipple. So you carry them in your purse. Whatever. Whats that . Okay, so, this is another great bra thats really an innovative in fashion. Okay, thats not a bra. This is the backless strapless. Its an adhesive bra. So it just stays. It looks like a breast bandaid. Put like this. For kindergarten. laughing i have to say, my friend invented this bra years and years ago and patented it. And now Many Companies make it in different variations. So i get to brag about that. So now your friend has a 200 foot yacht. Exactly. Exactly. I mean, really neat idea. And you know, those crazy backless, strapless, whatever. There you go. Wow. Okay. So here were talking about you know you have these tops that sometimes you just cant wear a bra with them . So and you just want to what do we do, jackee, when we have to wear a bra . We just lie to ourselves and wear it anyway. overlapping chatter these are a big stylists secret. These are great. Everything for hemming your pants to like a falling skirt hem, and of course, taping your shirt to your boob. Okay. So many uses for these. These are isa strips. All right, and last but not least . So we always want to talk about sports bras, right . Because thats like a big struggle for women. They cant find a good sports bra. And most women dont know that your breasts move up and down like six centimeters when youre working out. So you gotta hold those puppies in place. Like get a good sports bra. And what i like about this one is that it sort of has two separate breasts. So like most sports bras we get that uniboob. And we hate that. And you want to look good at the gym and working out too. So this gives you a really nice shape to it. And its also bra sized, so you shop it in the size of your actual bra, and its adjustable. Its got hooks. Why didnt they do that sooner, right . Were always wearing those ones that were like thats right. So and then thats just another style as well with a sports bra. Some women prefer whats called a compression which is sort of that one piece. You know, you pull it over your head typically. This one has a clasp, but if you like that style, then thats a great one. Thats cute. Very cute. There you go. Thank you, jene. Thank you so much. Well, every member of our studio audience is going home with a copy of. cheering well be right back with much more. Dont go away. Want to get in the best shape of your life . Join us for a challenge like no other. The change challenge. Expert advice and Community Support will help you transform your body and your life one small change at a time. Log onto. To find out more. It gets more and more entertaining every day. And once youve got verizon fios, thats when you get it americas fastest, most reliable internet takes your entertainment to ridiculous levels. I was streaming videos, movies, music. Once i realized how fast it was, thats when i got it. [ male announcer ] and now you can get it too, for just 89. 99 a month guaranteed for 2 years, plus your choice of a 300 amazon. 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Thank you so much. Okay, so you believe the bras you buy are a 36 double d . Double d. And youre gonna measure on your standards and see if shes a true exactly. And kind of explain how the process works. They say we say 85 of women are wearing the wrong bra size. Its pretty much true. And so were going to see if youre wearing the wrong one today, okay . Do you need an assistant . Okay. Ill let you know when i need you, okay . Youre all right . You dont need his help do you . No, okay. Kudos to the ladies for wearing their bra size too on their shirts by the way. Okay. So youre going under the rib cage . Right under the bust here on the rib cage. And im kind of pulling it snugly. Im so sorry. Im like at an awkward angle. So its not her waist . Thats not her waist . Right under her bust line. Shes in a blousey dress. Thats okay. Well work with it. We wont make you get naked. All right, so were gonna put it snugly. Sorry, sir. Were not gonna let her get naked. So first of all, im measuring her what would be her band size at a 33, okay . So shes already in a 36 right now. Now, you usually typically round up, so maybe we would say 34. But again, the size is just a guideline. Okay. So im gonna stress that several times. And then were gonna measure over the fullest part of the bust. And this is kind of how we get the cup size. But wait but now so i dont mean to be a stickler or anything. Just above the nipple line. Okay, above the nipple line. And a lot of fitters do it different ways. Or like different methods. This is just what i have found to be effective. Okay, so, im getting a 40 there. So were looking at a six inch difference. Okay. So she is a 34 f. Whoa. 34 f . Yes. Wow. Wow. Did you feel like you were wearing well now, the band works in relation to the cup. So now that were taking the band down, we can go up in the cup. But you were absolutely in the wrong size. Oh, okay. Wow. It goes one inch per advertise it. Remove her sticker applause a bra is a very technical piece of clothing. Its 30 its like the most complicated piece of clothing in your wardrobe. Its form, its function, and its an art. A beautiful piece of lingerie is worth its amazing. This is so fascinating. I wish we had another hour. I want to thank everyone for being here. We had so much fun today, but in all seriousness, one in eight women will be diagnosed with Breast Cancer in their lifetime. That is why it is so important to have regular checkups. For more information and a complete list of resources, log onto. I want to thank all of our guests for being here and sharing their stories and their sense of humor, and insights with us. Thank you so much. See you next time, everybody. Narrator and now enter into the courtroom of judge mathis. The plaintiff crystal clark engage to the defendant and while they were living together she discovered she cheated. After she forgave the defendant she found naked pictures of other women in his phone. She is suing for breach much contract. The defendant ins he did not cheat on christial. Kevin claims crystal was so insecure she checked his phone and hes counter suing for defamation of character. Judge mathis start wu. Plaintiff i was with kevin six years and it started out good untilly was cheating. Judge mathis start with when . Plaintiff 07 and 08. And a girl came in and mutual friend of mine told me kevin was cheating on me. Judge mathis how did she say she knew . Plaintiff she a friend of both of ours. Judge mathis okay. Plaintiff i found out and next day, he admitted to it we found clothes that he had left at her house. Bailiff he was an outdoor man. Plaintiff the girl found out he had a girlfriend and threw out his clothes. I didnt move out and i gave him another chance. Then i found text missages from other girls. Naked pictures was other women. Still gave him a chance. We got engaged. Judge mathis you thought that would change things . Plaintiff thought it would. Judge mathis what happened after the engagement . Plaintiff it was going good and then he text messaged his exgirlfriend happy sweeties day. So, the next day when i complained about it, he gave me a note that said happy sweeties day. No sorry. Judge mathis how did you respond . Plaintiff i let it go. I am still hurting over it. Judge mathis when did you finally break up or break off the engagement . Plaintiff a year and half ago. My father passed away. He really was not there for me when he passed away. Judge mathis it kind of went down hill from there. Plaintiff yeah. Judge mathis sir what do you want to tell me . Defendant he i was not cheating plaintiff he admitted me. Judge mathis i aming you a question. You never cheat on her. Defendant no. Judge mathis some women three your kids. You care to explain it or not. Defendant i left clothes at a girls house. They ended nup my it driveway. Judge mathis you go there to change clothes defendant your honor, i have a lot of female friend and all of my exgirlfriends. Judge mathis you would have a lot of clothes. You change clothes. Defendant i work in a factory and i keep a change of clothes in my car and i always have the dirthy clothes and i would change and go in someones house filthy and i would change clothes and sphimes i would leave them plaintiff the whole weekend. Judge mathis you were going to other womens homes and changing your clothes there before going home, all right. You expected her to believe that