seb ra/istock.com Do you have a family member or loved one who you are worried is using substances, and feel powerless to do anything about it? You may find yourself asking questions like “Did I cause the addiction? How could I have been so blind? Is there any hope? How can I help him or her get well? Is it possible to find peace of mind?” Behind almost every person struggling with addiction, there is a family member parent, grandparent, sibling, spouse, or another who suffers too. Witnessing a loved one’s addiction is both a heart-rending and bewildering