husband james lapan at a weekly dance class. every single time i came in, he d come sliding up again, and he s like, so, when do i get to throw my name in the hat? and i m like, maybe never, you know? there s the door. go away. but he wouldn t go away? no. serena, a sergeant first class in the army and a self-described alpha female, was happy to have met a man who wasn t a pushover. with james and his strong personality and my strong personality, we were on the same page, and we got things were going amazing. in 2010 at james request, they entered into a covenant marriage. what s a covenant marriage? covenant marriage is recognized before god and state, and quite frankly it s a lot harder to get divorced. less than a year into their marriage, james father died, and serena says something in her husband changed. he became, she said, controlling and
he d come sliding up again, and he s like, so, when do i get to throw my name in the hat? and i m like, maybe never, you know? there s the door. go away. but he wouldn t go away? no. serena, a sergeant first class in the army and a self-described alpha female, was happy to have met a man who wasn t a pushover. with james and his strong personality and my strong personality, we were on the same page, and we got things were going amazing. in 2010 at james request, they entered into a covenant marriage. what s a covenant marriage? covenant marriage is recognized before god and state, and quite frankly it s a lot harder to get divorced. less than a year into their marriage, james father died, and serena says something in her husband changed. he became, she said, controlling and