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Until then, keep lines of communication open, tell her what your fears are, and be open about how important she is in your life.

You don’t have to commit to anything until you trust someone, but that won’t happen until you start going out

Bringing it up during an argument will eventually be counterproductive and prevent you both from moving towards a position of better understanding and clarity

I am on the verge of ending this relationship because it doesn’t seem like we can have a future together. Please help

You can explain why it bothers you, point out that disregarding your feelings is a sign of disrespect, and keep calling him out on it until he breaks the habit. It is behaviour that can be unlearned

These are issues only the two of you can resolve, because it’s your health on the line as well as hers. Relationships are often about compromises

If that happens, I am afraid I may not be able to date anyone ever again, which frightens me

How do I get her to understand where I’m coming from?

That depends upon how much you want or need the job, and how you think she will react to your admission. It may make sense to meet her outside the office for coffee a few times before revealing how you feel

To put it aside now and assume it will disappear on its own only means the problem will appear further down the road. Talk about it even if it’s hard