petroleum to excess, to the extreme, it is one thing to say you have a lovely shirt, you look good and your body fits in it so well. there are those lines. neil: wait, wait, wait. your body fits in it so well? guest: not a for thing. that is the key. be careful about what you say at all times. if you question it and you have some doubt don t say it. you don t want a lawsuit filed for sexual harassment when you didn t intend it. neil: this is a perry mason special right here. but it s not. very good words to live by. thank you very much. when we come back, for all you ladies who don t like my shop tips for men, now it is your turn!