people often discover new goals, new opportunities, they make new choices that they wouldn t have made previously. we talk about in the book about a woman named asha who was a work a day, business womb, working at a start-up in new york, living a good life of a 20-something year old but an unchallenged life and then the unthinkable happened to her at the age of i believe around 25, she got breast cancer. a particularly virulent breast cancer and she thought she was going to die. you know, flash forward a few years she s now cancer-free but what was hardest for her getting back to her life. she realized through her ordeal that she could no longer live the life that she was living. she ended up moving to los angeles and taking up the electric violin and a few years later she s playing with jay-z, on the american idol band, the tonight show, just incredible transformations. what are some of the principles that distinguish the super survivors from people who