Package our First Defense of exception nowadays and you can get it from lots of different races, but its a feeling that youre special and destined for special things. The second element is almost seemingly the opposite and that is a dash of insecurity to the exception a la the end of the feeling quite done and are not quite good enough yet. The third element is impulse control or selfdiscipline and the ability to persevere and resist temptation. Its really the interplay between those first two qualities that kiss at the crux of the book. You know, how does somebody simultaneously feel insecure in superior . We think that is what precisely generates drive and this feeling like i need to show the world. I need to show other people. I need to prove myself. What is the third impulse control . That allows you to be able to do it. You can have all the drives and hunger, but if you arent trained or dont have the ability to hang in there and persist, even very driven people tend to give out. I