than a week. and what may have helped them finally reach a decision. reporter: in a packed court rom room aaron hernandez looking back at his mother and fiance gasping at the news. and despite his parent astonishment he mouths to them be strong and i ll bow oe okay. and the family of odin lloyd, no less emotional. and then a moment for the family to speak. ursula lloyd saying he was the backbone of the family. i felt that i wanted to go in