when we re out there doing the mission, it requires every ounce of our concentration and every ounce of our ability and if you re distracted by anything, that can interfere so luckily, i have a strong wife. and she s doing a great job raising a beautiful child and i don t have to worry about that most days. of course, when i m at home at nights and the adrenalin has gone down and the mission is over, then it s ok to worry about it but when i m out there, luckily, like i said, she s strong and i don t have to. rachel, what is it like at home? in reality, it s much harder on those families. yeah. what is it like at home? well, it s just, you know, every day stuff. just without him. so, you know, you just have a lot more stuff that s on your plate, you know, stuff that he did that you have to do now. you know, it s everything. so but you just make it work as best you can. what would you like to say to him now? i imagine lincoln looks a little bit different and major, did you