out obey, from the vows. a lot of women are leaving out the a dibble word obey, from the wedding vow. dave: this goes back to the book of common prayer in 1662, a tradition in the u.k. they leave in obey, but we realize that is outdated. and should it be reversed dave: that has to be taken out. leave it out. clayton: what about tradition? i am a traditionalist. why want anyone to interpret the constitution but . you cannot pick and choose. let us know what you think of