You and don roos, your husband, you know, was it do you find it different or more challenging for you . You know what, heres what i say. Like at the end of the day, the diapers smell the same, we just may look a little nicer while were changing them. laughter its i really feel, especially after having written the book, the way i connect now with other parents, straight or gay, single, not single no matter what, when you are a parent and you are dealing with getting up in the middle of the night or youre the love you feel for you child or the rage that they make you feel when they wont go to bed, all those things are the things that bond us. And i found that the process of writing the book was like an emotional ripping off of my manspanx. laughs right. It was like for all these years i sort of kept so much of it, like all my fears and all my neurosis and worry that im not gonna be the perfect parent, i kept it all in and writing the book was really a way of just saying, guess what . Thi