paul, let me start with you. first of all, this is such a hard discussion to have because no one wants to politicize this. the president did bring this notion up of who has called, who has not called, so i guess that brought it up into the public s conscious. where do you see the developments over the last 24 hours. i think it s bad for everybody. i think the country is disgusted by it. it s bad for our politics, military, moral for people overseas and most of all it s bad for the skron son family. they ve been thrust into this. and frankly, i think they probably want to be left alone. and if they want to speak, they ll come out and let know know. but i think that the president should leave them alone, the media should leave them alone and we should let them go through an unimaginable series of circumstances and try to drive as much support as we can to them and other gold star families. maybe they re getting more attention now. we can hear the stories of these heroes and the heroism