am going to give you an example. when— am going to give you an example. wheni— am going to give you an example. when i was — am going to give you an example. when i was a child, my father was persecuted — when i was a child, my father was persecuted so he had to flee. he left us. — persecuted so he had to flee. he left us. me — persecuted so he had to flee. he left us, me at my grandmother and the rest _ left us, me at my grandmother and the rest of— left us, me at my grandmother and the rest of my family behind. he escaped — the rest of my family behind. he escaped to nigeria to protect his life. escaped to nigeria to protect his life and — escaped to nigeria to protect his life. and his friend who did not manage — life. and his friend who did not manage to escape got killed. at the end of— manage to escape got killed. at the end of the _ manage to escape got killed. at the end of the day, my father managed to -et end of the day, my father managed to get us _ end of the day, my father managed to get us out _ end of the day, my father managed to get us out of the country, we lived there _ get us out of the country, we lived there for— get us out of the country, we lived there for a — get us out of the country, we lived there for a period of four years with— there for a period of four years with my— there for a period of four years with my grandmother and the rest of my family _ with my grandmother and the rest of my family. the risk is great. for you not— my family. the risk is great. for you not to — my family. the risk is great. for you not to put your children, someone _ you not to put your children, someone to make a decision not to put the _ someone to make a decision not to put the children, the wife into danger~ — put the children, the wife into danger. that is why people escape and leave — danger. that is why people escape and leave their family behind. if the head — and leave their family behind. if the head of the family is killed,