kids alone - a 14 year old son and 8 year old daughter. she a very nice mother she always take care of our kids reporter: the coming days will bring more pain for the alcantara family. accepting that, brings abner to tears funeral plans and visitation services will take place. instead of celebrating mother s day and abner s birthday reporter:the two would be married for 15 years at the end of the month. abner cannot cope with the love of his life. now gone. it is very hardcan we stop now? in san lorenzo justine waldman kron 4 news. pam: aldrin her-.43 year old fell-o-meana her-on-ga. together they have two childrena 13 year old girl and a 10 year old boy . today the son expressed his feelings of grief to his father. reporter: worked as a senior clinical new one to the mother s day and i do not have a mother. reporter: lab scientist for kaiser permanente in oakland. is said to have beena cheerful, giggly person.who had a knack for making people happy. it was the h