our next guest met the love of her life and got married and moved to an exotic far way land then the fairy tale ended. her new family in afghanistan and crash course of gender apartheid, oppression that planneded the seeds of future in human rights, phyllis chessler, professor of psychology at the city of university of new york. he new book an american bride in kabul, detailing the struggles that made her one of the most respected voices for women today. how did you ever get from being a nice jewish girl in brooklyn to being a bride in kabul and when did you realize this is not at all what i signed up for? i was a romantic. we fell in love.