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Every Marriage Has Its Arguments And Fights. But Here's How To Tell If They're Actually Normal Or Cause For Alarm.

How do I cope with this situation without letting my fiance worry about it?

Doubts are normal, but it always makes sense to air them out and talk about what bothers you openly because that is how you can both move towards some kind of resolution. It’s great practice for life after marriage too, because that is how all successful relationships evolve

The sooner you are honest, the more time you give him to process this and find a way of coping

When you do speak to each other, however, you should both try and address the issues that brought you both to this juncture, because it’s obvious there are things that have been ignored for too long. Until then, wait and try to process your emotions

The best thing to do is enjoy each other’s company and companionship until you get to a point where that isn’t working well for you. Giving her time to arrive at this place on her own is the most sensible thing you can do

Tell him what your fears are, give him time to see things from your perspective, and come up with a plan that works for you both

Take some time to think about this, evaluate how you feel a few days from now and, if you still can’t reconcile the person she is with what she believes in, it may be best to end this and move on

This isn’t an easy decision, but I suggest you put yourself first because your mental health is critical to good parenting

You can always tell her why you want to take things slow and give her a chance to explain herself before arriving at a compromise