i didn t know before, i don t know now. other than a few 9-1-1 dispatchers and a few town officers, the wider community, the friends of charlie tan, certainly knew nothing about the whispers of domestic violence on classic he s a very stew akin to visual. it s a tough part of his life. the record is still sealed, but it s safe to say, the tan house was known to authorities. go back to cornell, it s the winter of 2015, and charlie is now a sophomore. on a chilly thursday morning, he stopped an unexpectedly to visit is football coached. there s a softer side to this coach that drills axes in those. his kids know he ll always be there for them. our role is, if you have a problem, will close the door. if you need someone to talk to, we re here. now it was truly who needed to shoulder. i said, how you doing? he said, good. i can make the lift on friday. i said, what s the problem? he said, i gotta go home. charlie seemed emotional.