ucla, where he met jeremy brandt. here they are together on ucla brute stock, on public access tv. >> everybody came back and was, we're not gonna lose or whatever. and came back and we clicked on since then. >> we can be a final four contender. >> i always say we ran the same speed, and so we would run the warm-ups the same speed, and we would end up talking together, and we became roommates throughout college. it's just a great guy, a great friend. >> quiet, mind you. shy, at least around the girls. >> he wasn't quite the ladies man. i'm not gonna lie to you. >> and then, one night back in 2000, four years after he graduated from college, harp met a girl at a party, talk all was there too. the girl's name was julie. >> she kind of zoned in on harper right off the bat, and started to talk to him. >> some on the oppression she
>> but could they do? right. it's what heart would have wanted after all. harp, jason harper, sports loving, outdoors loving california boy, with a childhood best friend named paul severns, who as they grew became tall paul. >> we were always together. you know, i caught up to him after those years. we were both the two tallest guys in school. >> so, when they got to high school, there was one sport that they were very well suited to play. volleyball. >> harper is a stud, you know? he was, you know, on the team. >> yes and went on to play at ucla, where he met jeremy brandt. here they are together on ucla brute stock, on public access tv. >> everybody came back and was, we're not gonna lose or whatever. and came back and we clicked on