to 40 years old. they recently changed age description, it is now 20 to 40. at the time of the murder this man was 20. someone who knew him told us he was a decent guy, and certainly wasn t stalking which was a key part of the description of the killer. stocky. as we approach the anniversary of alistair s death, no one has been charged. it has left a family scarred. i been charged. it has left a family scarred. been charged. it has left a family scarred. i have been referred family scarred. i have been referred to family scarred. i have been referred to as family scarred. i have been referred to as the - family scarred. i have been referred to as the banker s| referred to as the banker s son, i have had people at school say a very nice things about it and think it s funny, i think people don t realise the effect of something like this. i have had over ten years of counselling and many fears of counselling and many fears of the dark, being in the dark on my own. i don t think