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True, people brought dishes to pass, but I am dreading a repeat.
When I state that I don’t want to do this, he throws a fit. Can you suggest some ways I can cope with this situation and not lose my mind or end my marriage?
– Hostess with the Leastess
Dear Hostess: You have done yeoman’s duty over the years, and yes, the cumulation of all of that effort has probably been rewarding, as well as exhausting.
Now stand your ground. If your husband throws a fit, ride it out.
If he wants to host a large party, hire a caterer. Catered parties are still a lot of work for the hosts, but you would be relieved of the pressure of prep and cleanup.
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