Why Mutual Masturbation Should Be on Your Valentine’s Day Sex Menu
Masturbation solo and mutual belong on the menu this V-Day, even in an intercourse-obsessed culture.
Don’t believe the sex-negative messages that seep through every single crack of society. Masturbation does not stop once you’re in a relationship. It does not stop when you’re single. It does not really stop, well, ever. Well, unless you choose not to do it, which leads me to two questions: 1. Why? And 2.
Why?
I kid. You can do whatever you want because you have full control over your sexual expression. Masturbation is a very normal, very healthy part of being a sexual human. It does not make your palms hairy or give you erectile dysfunction or make you go blind these are only a few of the absurd myths that swirl around us like a never-ending crap-tornado.
How to Avoid STI Transmission When Sharing Sex Toys
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Sex toys are truly a wonder; they do more than just offer up orgasms left and right. In a society that doesn’t want you to learn about your body, sex toys can be the key to figuring out your body’s pleasure potential regardless of the sex organs you possess.
At the same time, we still have a lot of deep-seated discomfort around these motorized gadgets. We live in a world that is at once obsessed with sex and disgusted by it. We don’t want to inform young people about safer-sex practices or sexual ethics, and yet free gangbang porn is available with a simple Google search.