Daily Monitor
Saturday April 03 2021
Summary
While disagreements are normal in any relationship and enable a couple to learn each other’s strengths and weaknesses, daily arguments are a red flag and if there is no effort from one or both parties, it can result in separation.
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After dating for many years, I felt I knew Henry. We enjoyed each other’s company and we were free with each other to the point of sharing phone and bank account passwords,” says Alice Nabakka.
On their wedding night, his true colours emerged when Henry shouted at her for forgetting to turn on the heater. “I brushed it off pegging it to exhaustion,” she says.
Daily Monitor
Summary
Certain behaviours and reactions are sure to riddle your relationship with resentment, disappointment and or anger. Here are just a few you might want to avoid, writes
Joan Salmon.
When people get married, it is expected that they have found the love of their lives and will work together towards achieving happiness. Unfortunately, many times, this is not the case. Sometimes, one partner may become disgruntled and want to end the relationship while the other tries to hold on. This is when many end up hurting each other either physically or verbally.
Stephen Langa, a counsellor, says just like anything good in life, a couple must work hard to ensure their marriage is successful. When a spouse is frustrated with their marriage, there is no telling what they will do or not do. Esther Nsubuga, a counsellor, shares some of the reasons.