A physicians discovers the power of mastermind groups “My whole world has changed, but my workplace’s expectations haven’t. I am paying twice as much for childcare and caring for my children’s mental health needs on top of my normal job. This has been going on for a year, but expectations for my performance in the workplace haven’t changed.”. “I was watching an old home movie of my son’s baptism with my seven-year-old when he turned to me in horror, saying, ‘OMG, you let that person (the minister) kiss me?” “Is it a bad sign if my two-year-old automatically points to the desk by the door every time we go out asking ‘mask?'”