By www.iHeartToby.com Apr 20, 2021 Ah, dating. It's never an easy thing, is it? Well, maybe it's easier for some... But what do you do when you meet a dude who is shy? Who is the "I" in the INFJ... meaning, INTROVERT... how do you break the ice? Here are some tips which could help... so give 'em a try! To recognize a shy guy tentative flirtation signals, here are some things to look out for: Tentative eye contact Test his interest by looking him straight in the eyes. If he’s not interested, he won’t return your gaze. If he looks straight away, but then briefly back to you this shows that you are clearly interested.