Love, that is true happiness, is always here warmth from spiritual moments and familiar glances, together at the same table, belarus 24, what unites us, every child, as they say , needs eight hugs a day, so probably the word mom also needs to be spoken, every child, pronouncing this word, he somehow that mom gets protection from this word, mom is such a big, big well from which children draw what they need later. One of those somehow sacred words that have so many different meanings, yes , we cannot replace the biological mother , no one can do this, ever, it is impossible, but to give what is not given to the child, what was not received , it is in our power, and we must do it, my name is inga norvatkina. I am a parenteducator of the kobrin childrens village. Motherhood is when you give your all to your children without expecting anything in return. Koprin childrens village is a social and pedagogical institution, children left without parental care live here for various reasons, some have parents deprived of parental rights, some have died, this is a Large Institution where there are many children, where there are and a social teacher, a psychologist, and some various services for children, this, of course, is also of great importance, thanks to this we can reveal more widely we have different ones, but today there are 106 of them, the childrens village has 15 houses, i live in house no. 5. During this time, the children grew up and moved away, but there were no fewer children in the house , my husband and i remained, and we continue to do the same thing for which we came here, to raise those children who, for some reason, lost their family, at the time when we arrived, three of our houses were unfilled, that is, they were new just completed houses, they were waiting for families, but today in the childrens village there are only three married couples, the rest falls on the shoulders of our mothers, who are in every house, mothers, assistants, older children, the concept of a day off, somehow for people who nonkobrin ones practically do not exist, although we have very good assistants who try, and especially those who also work , for several years already, my assistant and i have been working like this for 20 years, it was in every way, now in every way, but in general for 21 years old 27 children. Grew up in a house eight continue to grow now, 19 are already graduates, i had a period when there were 11 children in the house, from toddlers to very old ones, im probably a little spoiled by the fact that i always have more girls, they are my kind, not that its time to hope , they are a wall that you can lean on, yesterday we fried moroccan pancakes, they are mothers for the children, we found this recipe on the internet with cobs , come on, come on, theyre tinder there, im standing there, looking with one eye, girls, were making baked ones sandwiches today, rolls. Angelin, please cut the sausage, karina grated cheese, carolina rolls, i really dont like the phrase, they help you, i dont need help, im not disabled, i can do everything myself, they dont help me, they learn to live, they prepare for their future life, including , that in a family there are many children and the children are different, this imposes its own specific order on the daily routine, routine, everyone has their own, during school time, even on the refrigerator there is a schedule, maybe it is more for me than for the children, we spend a lot of time childrens employment, they need to be shown that there is a lot more, there are also sports sections, art sections, associations of different interests, there is, after all, a huge world, a childrens village, remember, two straight, two lateral and two. Everything from the chin, one, two, three, remember, the force of the blow, what are we doing, sit down, completely, with all our strength, naturally, we dont hit the floor, straighten up, straighten up with the other arm, and exhale, lets go, my husband, hes already 20 he has been working here at a Sports School for years, he is a boxing coach, he has a huge number of our guys who there is. So in the far hand there is a two and he, no, with the front hand, answers, you again, one, one, him again, boxing, lets go, and move, move, dont strain your legs, fly like a butterfly. Mens housework and mens contribution to raising children, no matter what anyone says, it is invaluable, it is not true that only boys need it, no, girls need it no less, but now due to the fact that summer is more free time, but theres also a lot to do, because were rolling up the rolls, making jam, pickling cucumbers and growing a vegetable garden, then there is enough regular summer work. You always try to tell your children that if you have cleanliness, order, beauty all around , your soul is probably somehow calmer and lighter, but its for everything, you have to put in the effort, im very often asked the question, in what pots do you cook dinner . , and when you say, a saucepan, well, 5 liters, is not enough, i say, its normal, well, its kind of enough. Sometimes you probably get a slightly wrong impression about the childrens village or about our every home, it seems like theres Something Like that here incredible, in fact, this is a family, well, a family with 10 children, well, yes, the children have different surnames, but you ask them, who is this . This is my brother, this is my sister, they dont come here anyway , they are imbued with these kindred feelings, and naturally, like in any normal family, where. Normal, correct parents, the child learns from a small age, thats what he likes strength, thats what he needs to learn, it was my mother who said that adulthood is determined by what you see at work, when i was little, i didnt understand what it meant, what it meant to see work, now i also tell my children, you must see the work, you should not wait for mom to say, clean it up or wipe it off, or when you see it, then i can say you are ready for an independent life. And this is not some kind of achievement, this is the norm, the norm, you have to make the bed, you have to wash your face, i shouldnt go remind you of this, no, of course, this is done until a certain age, but we must reach the point where he consciously did this, the childrens village didnt just teach you how to peel potatoes, fry pancakes and make the bed there, no, they showed you how you can become successful , they showed you. Humanity will not survive the emergence of artificial intelligence, because the very concept of man will change forever, we are already seeing a future in which such a concept how country, community, team, family, it is absent, remaining in their pseudocivilized world at the moment, they close the borders from everything traditional, from all those values that we are now positioning from the countries of the east, making it worse only for yourself, in order for you to understand modernity , you must understand the past, read it, and accordingly, the mistakes of the past, learn how to avoid the mistakes of the future, things in life, mother, you cannot betray god, and you cannot betray the earth , markovs project is nothing personal, only the truth, which is always more interesting than speculation, watch on the belarus 24 tv channel, in each program there are new heroes, we are all united by the fact that we study at the belarusian state medical university, so we all dream of becoming doctors, bko is Belarusian Committee of youth organizations, we unite 35 youth public associations of our country. Unpredictable questions. Where andrey makayonok recommends putting the pill in his comedy. Under the tongue. Under the tongue . Its that simple. And unexpected answers to them. Build a tower. Already three elements. Three elements. Unfortunately, there is one element for every wrong answer. You can throw something at him again. In general, let it be lor and this is the wrong answer. Let it be lor, this is a completely wrong answer. Look at the intellectuals. Show tower on the belarus 24 tv channel, summer for us is such a hot time of entry, well, now of my. Eight permanently living children in the house, there are only two in the house, the rest are in the camp, they will return, soon, but at the same time, there are still children in the house, this is margarita, a girl who was raised with us for 5 years, but unfortunately, due to her health, she is now in another institution, but in the summer she is with us, she is ours, she knows what it is her home, there is her study, and here is her home, this is important for her, and angelina is a girl who is already 2 years old like our release. She studies in baranovichi at college, but now she is here on vacation and here she is at home, that is, for graduates, for children who have left, this is home, they come here as if they were home, on holidays, on weekends, on holidays, i know many children who dont have homes like we have, in fact, im very glad that i have this family, a home that i can return to, when i got here, i was 12 years old, i immediately joined the family, that is me and my younger sister, that is, at first we thought it would be hard, because somehow its like a new family, a new house, a new city, that is, everything is unknown, and well, when we got here, they treated us very warmly, we somehow got used to everything here very quickly, the children who come to us very different and we have children with special needs. Mental and physical, well, there are different children, if you consider in what environment, in what atmosphere they lived, then there is nothing surprising here, one just needs to ask for adaptation, but the other needs a clear framework, which he knows that he does not must break for his own sake himself, because well, it will lead to trouble, it will lead to trouble, then it will be autumn, you know, thats it, in the fall i will be here, in the fall you will come for vacation, we have margarita, who has been since she was 3 years old, unfortunately, she is no longer with us, but the children have a question, when you go to pick up margarita, they walk with her, they walk with her, they look after her there, but unfortunately. She will always be mentally at the level of, well, 34 years , maybe five, at most, but she is our favorite child, she knows this well, she knows everyone, mom, mom will come, mom is at home kobrin, in all other places, this is school, a house in kobrin, and there is a mother, a father and there are sisters and brothers, she is all this, thats when a child, you know, he has this feeling, this is security, this is support. Then no matter what injuries he has or have, he will be able to survive them. Every child makes you smarter, wiser. Stronger, develops your qualities that help you see the good in people, every child, no matter how restless, disobedient, harmful, is still in him everyone has something good, so if you find that good grain, it wont let you die in a hungry year, you almost ended up in a cell. Of course, children from good parents dont come to us, and yes, there are children who have experienced domestic violence, i dont justify them, of course, but i probably sympathize, i sympathize with the fact that they deprived themselves of this happiness , the happiness of communicating with your child, the happiness of giving. Him care and feeling his care, i probably wish all parents to still find strength in themselves and somehow to improve, maybe its naive, maybe its not entirely correct, but i believe that bad people are in the minority, and we should probably really feel sorry for these people, well, something has gone wrong in their lives, well, its really bad if they became like that , my dear mother decided to simply abandon me. Well, i dont, well, i dont blame her for this, it happens that parents abandon their children, it happens that children simply hate their parents for this, but i dont blame my mother, she decided anyway this is for the sake, maybe for herself, maybe for her money there wasnt enough there, she had to do it, i dont blame my mother, shes still a good person, shes my own mother, she will always be in my heart, and i believe that if we push children to be good , then they. will continue to carry this goodness, the main thing is to convey to the boys that they can do a lot and that they can be wonderful husbands in the future, of whom everyone around them will be proud and they will have wonderful families, wonderful wives with us, well, i see a more complete family here, because well here i can say i like it more, because here there is nothing like what i felt at home, these drinking sessions, these quarrels, constantly, someone i can come home with a calm soul and know that, well, everyone is at home sober, the fact that i come, lets say they feed me the same thing, ill go to bed calmly , but at home it wasnt always like this, the first time my mother didnt understand this, she took me, but then she started drinking, the second time she i understood, she immediately began. Collecting documents, finding out how i could be returned, now in 6 months she will be able to take custody of me back, she will be able to completely stop her parental rights, no matter how good it is here, but in any case i want, well, to my mother, it is a big misconception to think that the children owe us something or do they owe us gratitude, or do they owe us, no. Children are not obliged to do anything, they are not to blame that their fate has turned out this way, they may not have wanted this, and would like to live their lives completely differently, and never end up in a childrens village, initially, thats why children you dont owe anything, but you still give to them, this is love, you give without expecting anything , love is the ability to withstand difficulties, endure, overcome, well, this is also love, that is, you understand that you need to overcome this, i ill endure it, because its necessary, its necessary, because it will play a certain role, i came here at the age of 3, well, because of problems with my parents, well, i lived here all my life, grew up with children, i saw how the older ones graduated brothers, sisters. Well, now im also graduating, this is my last year, this place has become home for me, i communicate with my own parents, and so to speak, i dont consider them relatives, i consider them more like my own mother, who raised me here, i cant even believe that im graduating and you will come here as a guest and. Its already like you live here as a child, well, i will come, because well , everyone here is family, all the strengths that you need a lot of them here, a lot, but you draw them from the children, what im saying , one takes them, the second gives them to you, and you still messed up something somewhere, on the other hand you laughed, here. We got distracted and you were happy for someone, its difficult to understand whats inside a child, to understand what, what worries him, what worries him, what makes him happy, when you begin to understand all this, then the process will improve, it will improve your communication with your child, you will be on the same wavelength. Everyone has their own happiness, when we participate in these practices, we awaken in ourselves the ancestral memory, our own unique history, in childhood there are no days off, that is, in childhood the child does not wait for saturday on sunday, and the skin burns with its right and bending the light until it becomes molded, your attention is linked to your body, and your center of weight changes , your breathing changes, your attention changes, now you are looking for what tool, what tool to unite everyone, here is a choral game festival, look at the project about belarusians on tv channel belarus 24, what belarus is like in the eyes of those who once left it, belarusians have more of this. Active life position, i really love belarusian nature, i can come to the forest, just stop, stand, look at the sky, admire this beauty. True patriots are ready to share their love for their homeland, far beyond its borders; it is impossible not to love everything that is connected with the homeland, so that we carry it, take it to our countries, and there they would also talk about it, through their example of service, to the homeland of their ancestors, as if they were showing that it can be done, that it needs to be done, historical memory is the strength of the people, peace can be preserved if you preserve the memory of your roots, of your ancestors, of those who lived on this land, beautiful, pure, pure, pure white russia, watch the project, a look at belarus on the belarus 24 tv channel. Since childhood, i like to wake up with the thought of what good will happen today, i have had this habit since childhood, i wake up and think, what will happen today good, it could be, well, its a trifle, a trifle, but its probably also like a hook that holds you all day and you understand, well , there will be something good, it could be, well, it doesnt matter for other things , but its important to you, and when the day passes, youre here you live. Hello, sasha, everything, well, everything is good, great, great, how is this shift, much, which is better, this one or the last one, this is more for me, good, clear, well, good, what is this for us . Okay, then well talk, its clear, well, like fish soup, great, thats it, lets go home, today we have a pie, delicious, oh, but we can, but its not food for you, childhood is a period when a child, on the one hand, can get. Something that will help him later become a successful adult in the future, at the same time, on the one hand, this is a very defenseless period, because the child is very vulnerable, on the other hand, if everything is fine, this is a very. Happy period , because again the child receives love, he receives care, he receives enormous life knowledge, and he, uh, he grows up happily, we need to let the children go, well, kind of little by little, they need to be taught to grow up, and a period comes when you let go, let go, and it hurts, you tear it somewhere, tear it out of yourself, but you understand with your mind, this is how it is necessary, the child has matured, he has grown up, he has his own path, all i can do is help him further, probably by letting him go, this is also help, when you already arrive, i missed you coming, and i ll probably come next weekend, yes, come on, we havent seen each other here for a million years, already. Ill show up someday, yes, of course, i, too, have already happened, well, its like a whole summer, then youre there, then youre there, that we dont see each other, the children grow up, but they dont leave your life, they stay with you, their problems or their needs just pass on a little bit to another level, and you understand that you need to go through this level with them. Angelina is running here and there, but its fine, you have company , of course they help, girls, well done, ill be waiting for you, i miss you very much, ill be there, ill be there soon , ill be there, thats it, come on, i love you, i love you i love you too, byebye, come on, i cant say that everything is cloudless, there really are moments when you, well , i had moments when i cried, i just sobbed out loud and roared and you think, thats it, i ll leave, i cant, i have absolutely no strength anymore, but how long will this last, you youre hitting a wall, but then the group on viber, the older children, kicks in, because mom quickly went bad, mom is crying and you, mom, mom, mom, my mom. My mom, thats it, all the elders for you wrote, called, called back, distracted , they have their o