Demi Lovato changes pronouns to they/them after identifying as non-binary Entertainment Taking to Instagram, the The revelation came in the first episode of the singer’s podcast series 4D. "Every day we wake up, we are given another opportunity and chance to be who we want and wish to be," Demi wrote in the caption. "I've spent the majority of my life growing in front of all of you… you've seen the good, the bad, and everything in between. Not only has my life been a journey for myself, I was also living for those on the other side of the cameras."