anticipa and that was one of the things that made med want to get sober because if i couldn't make it work with cheryl, someone who got me and had my back and made a good partner for me, i was never going to be in a relationship with anybody. >> you could have had any woman that you wanted. what was it about her? for someone that doesn't know her. what are her qualities that particularly got you? >> she saw me, unlike any other woman that had been in my orbit for years. she didn't want anything from me. she wanted me to win. she wanted me to be the best that i could be. it wasn't about her. it was about us.