>> i go to school, but i have self support. i have to sell after school and market and i support myself. i take care of my parents. >> you found the value in yourself. [ applause ] >> i really want to know how it feels to be a first lady and your challenges, some of your weaknesses and your strgths and the disadvantages. i really want to know. >> excellent. i want to say how impressed i am with all of you. not just the types of stories you told, but the way you did it. with confidence and pride. that's the beginning of becoming a leader. it's just starting to do things