out about this in 2008. nobody heard you. you had been told you, don't talk about that who is giving you that directive? >> no one specifically. in the black community, you just always kind of knew it was like an unspoken code that you don't really tell on each other. you stick together. >> you've met r. kelly you said when you were 17-years-old. >> yes. >> and there was a video shoot a music video shoot in atlanta. you describe in the documentary, there was grooming early on, explain that, if you would? >> he pretty much right away tells you what he's in, what he likes, what he doesn't like. he also during sexual acts the whole time he's telling you exactly what to dwloorks not to do. what he likes, what he doesn't like. yeah. >> it was interesting at that time you said i didn't assume he