who am i to judge five years ago those words from pope francis regarding homosexuality triggered a small earthquake in the world well now a chilean survivor of sexual abuse says that he was the witness of remarkable words from the pontiff also regarding being gay juan carlos cruz says that he spoke to francis about homosexuality during a recent meeting at the vatican he told me one carlos that you are gay does not matter and god made you like this and loves you like this and i don't care the pope loves you this you have to be happy with who you are where the vatican has neither confirmed nor denied that the pope made the comments and they've drawn a mixed response from theologians still church watchers say that it's clear that