out "obey," from the vows. a lot of women are leaving out the a dibble word "obey," from the wedding vow. >>dave: this goes back to the book of common prayer in 1662, a tradition in the u.k. they leave in "obey," but we realize that is outdated. >> and should it be reversed >>dave: that has to be taken out. >> leave it out. >>clayton: what about tradition? >> i am a traditionalist. why want anyone to interpret the constitution but ... >> you cannot pick and choose. let us know what you think of