to have your mom acknowledge fully who you are just makes you feel whole for the first time. i can finally feel confident, and i can feel fully a man, and not feel less than. oprah: wow. ricardo's here with his mom today. ricardo and his mom, stand up. [cheering and applause] >> hey! [ricky laughs] beautiful. oprah: you know, portia di rossi was just saying that when she came out to her mother, her mother was understanding of it but, just as you were describing, never asked her about her relationships. so you saying that reminded me of what portia had said. but this changed it once ricky came out, correct? >> yeah. i think we all just want to matter, and when somebody who's famous and, for